should i persue the new guy or should i continue w/my current lover?
2006-07-22 18:06:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I get from your question is I am a s l u t.. and I don't just like being with one guy. Is it OK to leave my boyfriend any time I like another guy? Women don't like for guys to do that to them and what makes it right for you to play with guys that way too? So if it happens to you don't cry about it.
2006-07-22 18:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by just_me_thinking_&_smiling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are confused about what you should do, you should break up with your current boyfriend and figure it out. If the tables were turned and you knew that YOUR boyfriend was deciding between you and another girl, how would you feel? Wouldn't you feel insulted and that you deserved someone who knew they wanted to be with you? People seem to have such a hard time putting themselves in other people's shoes and doing the right thing. Don't be selfish. Just because you WANT to have you cake and eat it too, doesn't mean that's ok. Show him some respect, break up with him, and figure things out.
The guy above me says life it too short - have your cake and eat it too. Well what about the person on the OTHER side of that? Life IS short, and while you are having your cake and eating it too, you are wasting another person's time with your deception. Your boyfriend is spending time with you and putting energy into the relationship with the assumption that you aren't seeing anyone else. His life is short too! At least tell him the truth - that you want to see other people - and let him make the decision as to whether or not he would like to continue seeing you. How can you people look into the eyes of someone you know, tell them you love them, let them cook you dinner, let them take you out, KNOWING that you are lying to them and deceiving them???? It is extremely cruel, and you all should be ashamed of yourselves.
2006-07-22 18:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is your life and you are the one that has to live in your life. You pick who you want in life and you pick what it is you do in life. If you think you would be happier with someone else I would think you better go for it. Why would you want to live your whole life bored or knowing you should be doing something else? You only get one life so you should live it the way that makes you happy. Not the way that makes someone else happy. They have to make themself happy.
After a short time they will find someone else and they will be happy so dump him if that is what you feel you need to do. Remember there are over 3 billion of each sex male and female. Which means he could find someone else pretty easy if he tried. So you are not hurting him. And why should you care. You are a woman right?
2006-07-22 18:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the golden rule. if you persue the new guy, your new guy has every right to to leave you and persue a new girl.
2006-07-22 18:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as if you're committed to your current boyfriend, but more interested in "playing the field". You should break up with your boyfriend and give him the chance to meet someone who cares about him.
2006-07-22 18:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that even though you have found this other guy, you should stick with your guy... if you have a good thing going, dont ruin it for a possibility! if what you have is working, and you take a chance on this other guy, and the other guy doesnt work out, then you might be in a bad situation... but if it does work out then something good happened... its up to you but i still think that if you have a good thing going, dont ruin it...
2006-07-22 18:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say persue the new guy........if u already open the idea to another person mean that u having trouble and problem with your current guy...........u not happy with him..........then y not open a space for the other guy.............maybe he can treat u right
2006-07-22 18:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by lovelalust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u feel more for the other guy then just go for the other guy..ur cheatin yourself and your current lover by stayin with him if u like th eother guy more
2006-07-22 18:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by dance princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best option is to have them enter the gladiatorial arena and fight to the death to see who most deserves your attention. It's a long and honorable tradition amongst men.
2006-07-22 18:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by That English Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the one you like the most
2006-07-22 18:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by baby thug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋