I am 24 she is obviously older she doesnt cook me breakfest or lunch or even dinner i tell her that she needs to make me breakfest but she wont. Isnt the women supose to do the cooking? What happened to the man comming home from work and getting his back rubbed?
2006-07-22 17:53:38 · 20 answers · asked by Thomas L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why should you be served like royalty? The least you can do is cook breakfast together and enjoy it together. There's no such thing as the man being king anymore. It's called how to be a gentleman now.
2006-07-22 17:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your 24 why should she have to cook you food? Where do you both work together at? If I was her I wouldn't be cooking you crap either if you treat her like **** and think you can tell her what to do. If you where 5 or 6 yeah you would expect her to make you some food. You are grown up and if I was her I would only want to do it as something special once in a while as a family thing. Grow up and get your own place and make yourself what ever you want to eat
2006-07-23 01:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Are you talking about your Step Mother or your wife? Either way, you're old enough to take fix your own meals. Why should it be her job to work and then come home and work for you? Maybe if you cooked her dinner or breakfast sometime, she'd return the favor.
Seriously Dear, My daughter is 19, in college and pretty darn self sufficient. I do things for her, because I enjoy it, not because I feel obligated. Life really is better when you don't get dependant on others to do things for you :).
2006-07-23 00:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by sherrie_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should move out and find yourself a woman to do those things for you. you re 24 ain't it time to get out on your own and be a man, maybe then you can find someone to cook for you.i could understand if you were 14 and wanted her to cook for you, but come on 24? you need to be on your own and not living at home with your parents. and as far as the "woman doing the cooking and cleaning, and a back rub" i hope you can return favors because she ain't going to do it all without something in return, were not mens slaves were supposed to be their partners, seems to me you need someone to give you a few lessons on how to treat a woman and give a little respect. and its definitely not your stepmothers place to take care of you at that age, shes married to your father and if anything she should be cooking and giving back rubs to your father not you!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 02:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I really had a hard time believing what I was reading when you said that you was 24 and expected your step mom to cook your meals for you, man oh man, YOU need to grow up for goodness sakes. And to rub your back on top of that to boot, EXCUSE ME!!!! She is your step mom, not your wife!!!! You said that you work....do you even help pay the bills there... I sure hope that you do!!! And as far as you saying "isn't the woman suppose to do the cooking" that depends on a lot of things. She sure does not have to cook for you, that is for sure!! If anything, you should be helping her out. I have no clue as to who raised you but I grant you one thing, if I was married and my step son or my husband told me to fix anything for them, I would walk out of there and tell them to fix it their own self. Like I was saying, who ever raised you, sure did a very very poor job of it!!! When my step kids wanted me to fix something to eat---they asked me to and even helped me in the kitchen to fix the meal. Guess what, they were just 7 and 9. Boy, you should take lessons on manners from them boys that is for sure. YOU NEED TO GROW UP!!!!
2006-07-23 01:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET REAL! Your an adult, do your own cooking! NO your step mom does not have to cook for you! No, there is no set rule saying that the women have to do the cooking! GROW UP!
2006-07-23 01:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...key word..STEP MOM...she aint married to you and you sure are old enough to cook for yourself...and if your dad is cool with her not cooking and what else you think is a womans job then what business is it of yours?
Besides you mentioned she worked too and I'm down with rubbing my dudes back but there better be a little give and take not just expecting or demanding especially if I work too
2006-07-23 01:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 years is a good time to know how to take good care of yourself....and women arent the ones that need to be doing all of the cooking, cleaning, yada yada.... some guys live on thier own adn do very well...that would be an idea...
2006-07-23 00:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by cheater... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps for her husband, but not necessarily for his grown son that still lives at home. Grow up, move out, find yourself a girl and have her cook your breakfast and break, I meant... rub your back.
2006-07-23 00:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off ur butt should not be still living with ur stepmom and dad. 2ndly this is ur dads woman so she has no obligations to u period. U need to grow up get a place with a girlfriend who will cook for u on ur own.Make sure ur new girlfriend does good massages, I think U like those.
2006-07-23 00:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋