I really like this boy but he is my ex boyfriend...I broke up with him before school was over b/c I thought we should be able to see who we want over the summer since we would never get to see each other over the summer.So I broke up with him and then like 2 minutes later my best friend is going out with him.I really like him but my best friend is going out with him and I dont want to hurt her feelings and make him break up with her.So what should I do since I really like him but he is with my best friend now?
2006-07-22 17:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww...
:(
that's hard.
now then if you didn't give the details I'd have to say to you go for it! there's no boyfriend like one who already knows you. and loves you.
with the extra details...
it's much more complicated.
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ok this is what I have to say:
tell your best friend how you feel. there's no policy like honesty.
how she responds is related to how good of friends you two are.
she should understand, and you two might just end up sharing him, or he might end up deciding.
which would be fair...
2006-07-22 17:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were able to leave him and he and your best friend just magically wound up together so soon, it's not worth it. The reason you still like him is because in th every back of your mind (deny it if you must) you still think that he wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him.
Besides, if you broke up with him just so you could fool around this summer without any limits then the realationship wasn't really going anywhere. Just be happy for your friend and someone ALOT better will come along for you.
2006-07-23 00:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by diannidra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the classic case of the grass is always greener on the other side. You broke up with him, and he seems like he is moving on. You should question why you would want to get back together with a guy who moved on '2 minutes later' especially if he is moving on with your best friend. Find yourself someone more worthy of you and make you sure when you do break up, its for the right reasons
2006-07-23 00:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously hes not a good guy.
because if he starts dating another girl 2 minutes later he didnt have enough respect for your feelings in the first place.
especially if that girl was your best friend.
you're better off without him.
2006-07-23 00:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by lady lancelot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u broke it off and decided to move on to more people you should let ur best friend stay with him b/c he took ur advice and decided to date other people as you thought of.. so im saying if u really liked him then why make that kind of statment and mistake of breaking it off.. im sure he is not going to break up with your bff if you decided to break it off between u all.. he must be happy now if he hasnt already decided to break up with her w/out somone telling him to ..
hope this works out b/tween u all take care..
2006-07-23 00:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by *~BabiGurl~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loss is someones else game. Just move on, maybe next time you wont be so quick to break up.
2006-07-23 00:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! forget him or else just make friend with him, who knows ur 're still in his heart baby
2006-07-23 00:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by comelzuar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look ive been their and i think that u should do whatever ur heart dictates b-c then when they brake up and u've sacrifice that love u r the only one who will suffur. and if shes ur girl shell understand
2006-07-23 00:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by L@ chulita chicanita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait if things are meant to be they will fall into place. im in the EXACT smae situation as you.
2006-07-23 00:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by dancerchicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF AFTER YOUR RELATIONSHIP HE ALREADY WITH YOUR
BEST FRIENDS, WHY DO YOU WANT HIM BACK, IF THE
REALTIONSHIP MEANT THAT LESS TO HIM GOOD RIDDEN
AND FOR YOUR FRIEND. TRUST ME HE WONT BE THERE
VERY LONG.
2006-07-23 00:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋