how did you handle it?
2006-07-22 17:45:29 · 10 answers · asked by loveme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is what you call a person who is using you i myself would not stand for it it happen one time i let the guy sat down and eat he said he didnt have no money to pay i told him his problem payed for mines and left i refuse to be used i have sons [f i wanted to take care of a man handle your business gf
2006-07-22 17:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... well should the guy pay for it all. I think at first either the guy should get MOST of it, or each pay for their own. But after a while like 6-10 months in, I think you should take turns, it can just get WAY too expensive for either person for them to pay all the time.
I would just kindly ask the person to start picking up the slack. Ask why they feel the need to have you pay all the time, if they are old enough to have a job then they should, if they dont have a job maybe you should consider finding a more mature partner to be with, one that contributes to society and your relationship.
hope this helps
2006-07-22 17:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated a few of those. :( Next time you're set to go do something, just tell him you don't have any money, but if he can afford to pay for the two of you that would be great. Otherwise suggest an alternate thing to do that doesn't require money. If he's game, then he might be worth talking about the money situation with. But if he has no interest in doing anything that doesn't cost money - ditch him. (things to do that don't cost money - watch an older dvd, go swing in the park, shoot some baskets, toss a frisbee back and forth, play cards, etc.)
2006-07-22 17:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by happyg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't handle it. U let his butt go. Not saying that a man has to pay for everything but all the time, ridiculous. When looking for a man and/or boyfriend U need to make sure they r somewhat on the level U r on.there is no reason U should have to pay for everything. In that case U can find a nice man who will probably love u too but is homeless. think about it. U don't have to be mean to him now but make him aware that he has to pay sometimes or at least for himself. Good Luck!
2006-07-22 17:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always take enough to cover yourself or make sure he can cover your expenses. I got caught on one date like that. That was his last chance, and he he went home alone that night.
2006-07-22 18:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kari W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. Find someone who will split the bill, not make you pay all of it.
2006-07-22 17:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dumped him as soon as he asked for cab fare
2006-07-22 17:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. and trust me totally was not worth it AT ALL. RUN.
2006-07-22 17:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by ms_astasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just ditched his *** last night.
2006-07-22 17:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved on...for real...
2006-07-22 17:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋