yeah, I've liked this guy for about a year... we went out twice (Keep in mind that this was in the 8th grade so all we did was walk to class). Both time he broke up with me, and then the second time he broke up with me for another girl. We've been freinds for awhile and I thought I was over him... but recently I've started geting feelings for him again. There's also another complication. He is basicly in love with my ex best friend, but she dosen't like him back, and he knows this. He knows that I like him, I don't want him to go out with my just becasue he can't have her... am I stupid and wasting my time?
2006-07-22 17:42:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think ur stupid because u cant help who u like but maybe you should try talking to him about it and tell him exactly how u feel because its not like ur gonna lose nething but try not to get too attached to him so that if things dont work out u wont get too hurt!!
2006-07-22 17:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
You are a younger female who don't need any broke hearts. If you know your ex likes your ex best friend, then that's giving you a sign that you should just move on. You might be catching feelings on his looks. He can still be fine, but stay your friend. You don't need to walk into another one of those break ups with him again. You deserve someone better. I say you should never go backwards, all good things are up ahead. Don't turn around, find someone for you. You are not a sidekick, never think of yourself as second best. Keep it move girl.
2006-07-23 00:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by hunny_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not stupid nor are you wasting your time, asuming your about my age... we're young, we're here to have FUN! not find the perfect guy! we should be experimenting to learn what we dont want, so that when a good guy comes along we can see he's what we do want. breaking up is part of life, if he doesnt like you, guess what! he probably will!!! start casually flirting with him, he'll pick up on the hints and even if he tells himself he doesnt like you that way, it seems a seed is planted... its weird... if a guy is told a girl likes them, they can "ew" all they want, but within a month, they'll find themselves head over heels in LOVE! increible really. because they start to see you as more than a friend, they watch what you do and they start to see you in a different light. so basically what i'm saying is just give it some time, he'll come around, and if not he's not the right guy for you.
good luck & god bless!
-jasmine
2006-07-23 00:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about why he might want to go out with you. It might be for other reasons, too. Like you said, he knows she's not interested in him. He might have lost interest in her. Give him a chance. You're not in 8th grade anymore! Believe me, it wont be a waste of time. Not at first, anyway .
2006-07-23 00:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two work better as just friends. But if you can handle the idea of it being just for the time being and don't have any expectations of anything else, then go for it. But if you're looking for a boyfriend, I think maybe you should move on and keep looking.
2006-07-23 00:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are just wasting your time.. if he`s going to like your best friend and no that she doesn't like him back you could sorta tell that he`s OVER YOU. So you should just forget that piece of crap. I know it`ll be hard because you've had these feelings for quite a while and that they won't just go away. But this guy sounds like a jerk.
2006-07-23 00:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by that_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pretty much yes..i mean..he broke up with you once..then u got back together then he left u for another girl..after that..you should've let him go. He knows you like him..if he liked you the way you like him..he would've been with you by now..but he's not..i dont' think he likes you that way..and if he does end up with you it's probly cus he couldn't have ur x best friend..ur probly his back up. not to sound all mean and stuff..i think once he gives up on ur ex best friend he will turn back to u..but its up to you if u want to be his back up girl..the one that got dumped once and the 2nd time for another girl..u must like this guy a lot to take that kinda treatment..its all up to you..if you feel he's the one for you..go for it..only one way to find out..ppl learn from their mistakes..well..some..
2006-07-23 00:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the kid and start dating someone else this will either 1. lead you to a guy who you like even more or 2. he will realise what he felt for you and fight for you. Either way its a win for you.
2006-07-23 00:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a total waste of time becasue it seems he doesn't have any feelings for u. try to focus on other things that you like.
good luck and be strong
2006-07-23 00:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it... First come first served... People can change their minds... Part of being attracted to someone is being accepted back so you have a big advantage there.
2006-07-23 00:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by glenbrent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know what i dont think your wasting your time...my mom and dad had a relationship just like that in high school and now they have been married for 18years. give it a shot ya never know what may happen!
2006-07-23 00:55:23 · answer #11 · answered by Renee M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋