my bf is 18 and im 14?

Question

weve been goin out for a lil over 2 months and hes so sweet and a real gentlemen and ive never met a guy like this one b4 and even tho im really really young, i think ive found "the" one and he does too but is the age differnce that big of a deal?

Answer 1

If u want him 2 get in serious trouble sleep with him

Answer 2

The older you get the less age differences matter. At age 14 you are still really young and the age difference does matter. 20 and 24 isn't bad, but 14 and 18 is pushing it.

Everyone meets "the one" at different ages and times so it is possible to meet "the one" at age 14, but if this guy you are talking about is the one, then he will still be around in a few years. When you're 16 and he's 20 and you're both still interested in each other and feel the same way, it is possible you really have found the right person. Even then I would wait two more years. 18 and 22 isn't as big of a deal as 14 and 18 or 16 and 20. At that point if you're both still in the picture and with the same feelings, I would pick up where you left off. If you are both "the one" for each other it won't matter that you had to wait so long. You'll both still be there and things will work out at the right time.

Answer 3

The age difference wouldn't be such a big deal if you were older, like 24 and 28, but at 14 and 18, its just weird. As for love, you THINK. I'm sorry, but, teenagers in general don't know the first thing about love. (I'm only 15, I have no IDEA what real love is, not singling myself out) Don't do anything you will regret, aka Sex. If he loves you he'll wait, and if you really think your 'In love', he'll be around on your wedding night, right? You may think your in love now, but wait a few years and you might feel totally different. You're still growing, your likes and dislikes wil change aswell as your personality. Be a kid while you can, you can be an adult later, your only 14 once.

Answer 4

First I'm not trying to sound like a mother, BUT trust me at 14 you still got a lot of looking left to do before you think somebody is THE one. Age has nothing to do with a relationship but I can say don't judge a book by its cover, give it more time and then you'll know for sure. Try a year most things change after a year if that long.

Answer 5

HEY WELL WHAT I'M THINKING IS THAT WELL UR YOUNG AND EVERY THING SO I THINK U SHOULD BE DATING GUYS AT THE AGE OF 16 AND KNOW OLDER .AND THE BAD THING ABOUT IT MOST OF THE TIME THERE TRYING TO SOFTEN YOU SO THEY GOT U WHERE THEY WANT U SO WHEN THEY WANT SOME U WON'T SAY NO.AND U KNOW WHAT HE JUST MIGHT HAVE A GURL FRIEND OTHER THAN U . LOOK THE BEST THING TO DO IS SNOOP ALITTLE AND FIND OUT WHAT IS UP . WELL I SHOULD KINDA KNOW CUZZ MY SISTER WAS IN THE SAME **** ONCE AND THE ***** HAD A WHOE WHILE HE WAS DATING MY SISTER. HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR U ANY WAY BYE

Answer 6

Yes - The age difference is a very big deal. If the two of you have had sex, he will likely end up in jail.

You are too young to know what love is. I think you need to give yourself some time to group, and it seems that your boyfriend is taking advantage of the situation.

Answer 7

No matter what anyone says, 18 is not mature. You are young and impressionable. He is looking for "attention" and probably can't get it from girls his age because they know better or they know something you don't. I suggest you focus on school and find out what you want to be so you can be that in the future. If he is still around after you graduate from high school and he still believes what he believes now then go for it.

Answer 8

its interesting... i'm 14 and my bf will be 18 soon, the age difference has nothing to do with love. true love is something that defies age, sex, height, looks, brains and anything else. its a deep connection between 2 people. age is just the number of times you have been sitting on a giant ball of dirt, that is swinging around a really big hot ball of plasma. see how much it matters in the scheme of things? :-)

if you love him, love him for him, not for his age. if you fall out of love with him, dont let it be because of his age. often relationships with age gaps like ours will have problems with pressure, if so, maybe the relationship isnt right. if he doesnt understand that you're only 14 and that you dont want to do anything you dont want to do... well you should know what to do in that situation!

good luck & god bless!
-jasmine

Answer 9

You're 14 and you juts THINK he's the one. You can't really know how to think for yourself until you're 18. and that's pretty iffy too.

When you're 25, then you can say you've found the real one.

Just have fun with your own age group. Mostly, do your homework and listen to your teachers. This 18 year old needs to be slapped by your daddy.

Answer 10

hey well i'm kind of in the same situation just older tahn you...but like everyone says age doesn't matter and it doesn't...but sweetie love can be tricky...you may feel like this because maybe you don't have someone in your life that gives you the love of a male..such as love coming from your dad..and when your with this guy you feel like there is no world than just you two guys right? well yeah that's how I felt w/my boyfriend but trust me don't do anything "illegal" sex..you will regret it....and if you want to have headaches and all that stuff....tehn go on w/ur guy...but if you don't just cool it off for now... just have fun w/ur friends and focus on school...because school will help you later in life and a guy wont...so good luck w/everything...take care....

Answer 11

Hey, thats good to hear that! BUt age difference in America can be bad! Like at his age, he is legal and he can go to prison for doing something like this. BUt just try to stay off the physical stuff, like kissing in a public place, hold hands everywhere. I dont know what you look like compare to him! but If you look young! its a risky situation for him! someone can report him for being a sexual predator! and you could get him in alot of trouble! but if you look older than 14! i say keep you date him and lie about your age from people you dont trust!

I helped out a couple who was in the same situation, and they worked it out well!
I hope this will help you too! Good luck