Hey y'all. I am known as the good girl that doesn't smoke, drink or go wild at parties. I am in college and it seems like that's all guys like to do and also girls. And it also seems like guys are into the girls that do party, get smashed and aren't really goal-oriented. I feel like I'm the only 18 year old that doesn't enjoy getting wasted. I only get approached by older men or guys that say they want to stalk me. My guy friends tell me I am beautiful, which I don't believe, but they tend to go after the girls that are heavy partiers. Am I wrong or do guys prefer party girls?
2006-07-22 17:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just feel like I can have a good time hangin out with my friends without drinking..am I the only one?!
2006-07-22 17:35:21 · update #1
I have friends that do drink and that is fine with me, and I totally respect them for that. To everyone his own. It's just some people don't respect my own personal choice to not drink.
2006-07-22 17:44:41 · update #2
I recommend that you carry on with this path as this is the only thing that distinguishes you from the rest. You are unique. Don't let any one tell you otherwise. There is someone out there for you. Maybe college is not the time to discover who it is. Remember, guys only go for what they think is easy. I am generalising here but it is usually true for most. And being drunk, out of your mind, wasted is the easier option. Stay strong. You are not alone.
2006-07-22 17:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by idfg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am in highschool, and most of my friends smoke and drink and all that. My sister is the main hoster of these parties. It just makes me kinda sad because I'm always the only sober person and I have to help everyone. It's like I can't have fun with anyone without them drinking or something.
I usta be known as the goody-goody girl because I never did that type of stuff, but now I'm known as the one that gets drunk and stuff, even though that isn't true. So I do sympathize with you!
Best wishes, and best of luck! :-D
Oh and btw, I really have no ideas what guys prefer, but hopefully there are some out there that prefer girls that know how to have a good time without getting completely wasted! :-)
2006-07-22 17:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am 23 and I partied for awhile but got over it. Now I feel as if I have a hard time finding people my own age to hang out with that could take or leave drinking/getting drunk.
I am trying to find the compromise between people that I deem as too church involved and those who pressure you into getting drunk.
2006-07-22 17:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by luvfurypassionenergybabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if a girl doesnt drink her face off, as long as she can have a good time. If other girls are getting smashed and have a good time thats their way of doing it.
2006-07-22 17:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not the only one. I feel the same way,you can still have a good time without getting drunk.
2006-07-22 17:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the non party girls.... You don't have to get wasted to have a good time! Just be yourself....
2006-07-22 17:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by wittster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not, your just more mature than others at your age. any guy would be lucky to be with someone like you just be patient.
2006-07-22 17:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋