What do you do when you walk in on your 18yr. old son having sex.?

Answer 1

Turn around and walk right out of the room.

Answer 2

Depends - I assume you mean that he was having sex with someone else. Shut the door and tell him your going to the store and will be back in 30 minutes. I can promise you the partner will be out of the house in less than two minutes after you've left the house. Later, sit down and talk to him about it. Tell him you realize that he is 18 and that's something that is perfectly normal for boys to think about and do but there has to be some mutual understanding and rules for the home. Let him take part in setting the rules - he will be tougher on himself than you could possibly be plus embarrased as the devil that your taking all this so calmly. Truthfully, if you do this I don't think you'll have to worry about it happening again. Kids don't know how to handle us parent types when we're cool.

Answer 3

I would give him a while to see if he is going to broach the subject. If he doesn't If it were me I would just put it out there that hey I want you to know I am sorry if I interrupted you but since we are on the subject you are using protection right. Then I would let my son know that (if it were in my home which means my house under my roof) that I understand your at that age but I would appreciate it if this was not a regular thing and respect my home. That's me though and If it was my sons fiancee or wife then that would be a whole different thing.

Answer 4

Don't hesitate, he knows that you've caught him. He'll start thinking twice about doing it again. Your job is to talk to him about the responsibilities that come with his decision. If he thinks he's old enough to make that decision, put yourself out of the picture and tell him relationships are about commitment. He's gonna be on his own and he should understand that Mom isn't gonna be there to help him should there be consequences. Make him realize it's their decision and she expects him to become a man. Once he's taken that step it's adulthood for him.

Answer 5

Was it with a girl?

First of all, whatever sex the partner was, your son should have respect for you and your home. He obviously doesn't, and you should make that very clear to him.

Secondly, with that in mind, it doesn't matter if he is legally an adult. Inform him if he is going to live under your roof, he is going to go by your rules, otherwise he can find his own roof to screw under.

Answer 6

Well, it kind of depends. Whose home were they in? If it was his or hers...you should say nothing other than apologizing for 'barging' in I think...if it's yours, you may or may not want to set some sort of ground rules about that...especially if there are younger siblings at home...also a reminder about safe sex practices may be in order so you don't become a grandma too soon...;D

Answer 7

well at least he is 18 and not 12 or 13

Answer 8

excuse yourself and get out. You are not entitled to breaking in on his privacy and He will feel bad enough you even witnessed anything. Put it out of your mind and hopefully be glad he was with a member of the opposite sex. If not do not judge him but just go on with life.

Answer 9

. Excuse yourself and later talk to him about protection, obviously he doesn't need the sex talk. At 18 he should be mature enough to know what's it's about . Just remind him of STD's and don't make a big thing of it, he's probaly embarrassed already.

Answer 10

i would give my son a sex talk 2 make sure he doesnt ever impregnate his gf and get her pissed at him or get an std. i'd also try and be as nice 2 her - imagine being walked in on sex w/ ur husband!