Sadly, the first guy I truly liked and possibly fell in love with is going to college in the next month. All those years through middle school and 2 years in high school several guys have liked me from time to time but I never really liked any guy until I met him in my karate class and soon enough learned that he went to my school. Ever since then we always joked and talked and later learned on my own that I think he liked me. Now it is the summer and I rarely see him. I will see him one last time on our karate testing. I cannot get over it and I feel a little hopeless. I've been trying to let go. It's not working! Should I tell him that I like him the next time I see him even though it will be about 2 months since we've seen each other? Our connection is fading with the large amounts of time in between us.
Thanks for you time and thanks for reading my quite pathetic story.
2006-07-22 17:10:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that with the space and time between you two that it will not work... Long distance relationships almost never work... I think you should move on and just be lucky that you have know him...
2006-07-22 17:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by rrh1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the exact same problem as you, because I had the biggest crush on this guy who just went off to college. He was like perfect, cute, smart, funny, and everything...like the total package. I guess after they leave you really realize that you should have grabbed your chance while you had it.
But, in the spectrum of things, there are so many ways that you can contact him (via email, cell phones, IMing, etc.) As time goes on though, you gradually get over him, and move on.
Best of luck to you! :-) Hope this helped, or hoped you could relate to it, at least a little, lol!
2006-07-23 00:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch, write letters and emails, and visit his campus. You do not have to loose touch, cause of distance, nowadays. Let him go get an education, so if he ever becomes your man he can care for you. He's just a crush, be glad. When he's successful, he may become the ONE.
2006-07-23 00:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by China 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Crushed, sadly it is time to move on. He will be experiencing a whole new life style, and new experiences.
Keep him as a friend but that's it a FRIEND. Hope this helps. ~a mom whose son is also going off to college
2006-07-23 00:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Littlemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seem it would be fine to let him know you will miss him and love him. Get his number and email keep in contact and if you love him then follow him when you can to collage, etc.
2006-07-23 00:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happend 2 me this year.
but now i won't think of him.infact if i c him in the street i'll slap his chick off 4 not askin me out.
we used to be frinds not bf and gf.
and i also showed him how much i loved him sumtimes.
2006-07-23 00:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at your class tell him how you feel and he will have 2 months to process it and when you see him again ask him about it
2006-07-23 00:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
emails and if thats not an option write the old fashioned way letters by hand
2006-07-23 00:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by wrestlersmama1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that he is getting a higher education.
2006-07-23 13:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by lacroxplayer3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple - let him go if he comes back to you then you will know its ment to be -
Much harder said then done of course but dont worry you will get through it-
2006-07-23 00:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by sexysnowboarder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋