he thinks if he marries and God forbid dies in few month or few years, who is gonna take care of his wife and kids(if he got any).
2006-07-22 16:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, i'm sorry and i will pray for you and your family
second, if you love each other then you should get married and make that commitment to each other, what if you don't get married and a miracle happens? then you missed out on all that time...or you wait and wait and wait and then when you finally do decide to get married, then something bad happens?
third, my stepdad died in a car accident and my mom had to raise 2 children on her own and deal with paying all of the bills for a new house on one salary and she did it...you can do it too if (God forbid) something were to happen
my ending advice is to get married and if he really doesn't have much time, then enjoy the time that you do have together!!
2006-07-22 17:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anybody can die anyday, by any unfortunate event some of us are reminded of this by illness....It can make you cherish life or you can give up and not experience the things in which would complete your life...
I think he will regret this if he dosen't do this and I think it will saden you, if you don't see him fulfilling his life.... Maybe you will look back in the future and wish you experienced as much as you two could have...
Don't waste time, no one really has that much to waste....Good luck things happen for a reason
2006-07-23 00:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by pixi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, both of you should seek guidance from the Scriptures. Have compassion for him, and make your friendship as comfortable as you can make it for the two of you. Both of you should really think about what you want in life. If you love him and he loves you, then make God the center of your relationship and trust in Him for the outcome of the relationship. It might be the best thing that both of you do.
2006-07-23 00:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by jmbarcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is gonna sound really selfish and bad but if you go ahead with the marriage and he has life insurance...and he dies...you can make some serious mulah $$$....then you can re-marry and live happily ever after.
2006-07-23 00:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sally Pepsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All life is uncertain. He should do what he wants to do with the time he has left. Why waste a minute?
2006-07-22 23:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some guys or man r jerks and don't want to take responabilies of their action and they thinks that a woman job to do but its not. if u have a kid and u think just cause we the female bought them kids in the world that mean we have to take care of them when we didn't make them by ourself and some make stupid excuse like the kid don't look like me, u cheated on me with 7 guys or man and one of them can be the father but yet deep down they know that they r the father but ''scare" to grow up and take care of your kids also responabilies rone of them they r scare of doing. love is when u love someone in the good,bad, and ugly times and show them that u care for them also willing to surpport them in the hardest times in life not for only sex or materials stuff. not all female want some of the guys money, money is used for if u need to buy food, shelter, clothes,shoes, cds and more materials stuff. money can't not buy love at all u have to earn love. some female r very independentable and don't need a guy to make them happy. u have to loe them for who they really r not for something they r not
2006-07-23 00:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by adelaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIS concerns are valid and warranted........
what are YOUR concerns seems to be the question here. You didn't say how YOU felt about marring HIM. He is posing all these concerns to get feedback from YOU.
I would think that you could comfort those fears and worries by reassuring him that you will stand by him through life...........
if that is what you intend to do.
2006-07-23 00:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his life is in real danger and wil most likly die in next 9-10 months dont marry cause you wouldnt want to go threw have kids alone (if any) and dont want kids to have no daddy
2006-07-22 23:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by italiandude2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT QUESTION IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN ANSWER
FOR Y OUR SELF, BUT LIFE IS A PRECIOUS GIFT, AND WHAT
EVER TIME HE HAS YOU SHOULD CHERISH THAT AND IF
IT MEAN THAT YOU ONLY A SHORT TIME MAKE THE BEST
OF IT, AND BE THERE FOR HIM AS HIS WIFE, AND ONLY
GOD KNOW THE FATE OF IT ALL. BUT GOD BLESS AND
KEEP YOU AT THIS TIME.
2006-07-23 00:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only got one life, he should live it fully while he can :(
2006-07-23 00:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Babadoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋