ok...this girl was like all over me...so i asked her out and she said idk maybe..is that a nice way of sayin no? cuz she told all of her friends that she was confused and that she didnt know if she liked me or not..we talk every day..but just not like we used to ..idk y??..she says shes been really busy, and she has , but i have my doubts.....like everyone has been buggin me and her about it...i know i need to give her space and time...and i have..and shes kinda starting to come around agian..but i just need some advice please help
2006-07-22 16:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but shes still definitly not like she used to be
2006-07-22 16:51:57 · update #1
but y wuz she all over me in the first place??
2006-07-22 17:03:46 · update #2
well i guess it's just part of being in that kind of relationship..she's playin hard to get...if she's comin around then don't worry about it...she just needed to think..
2006-07-22 16:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by dabugster20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it sounds like a polite way of saying that she's not interested. Girls have a hard time being direct and confrontational. They don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and by telling you "no", she doesn't realize that it would just alleviate your confusion and anticipation if she would just say it. She probably thinks it would hurt you too badly. Think about it... if you were the guy she had been dreaming about for ages, do you think she would be too busy to find some time for you??? I guarantee she would rearrange her life as quickly as possible. I'm sorry to tell you that, but I believe that it's the harsh truth. I'm sure you're a great guy and you should move on. If she really liked you, she'll approach you again, or get the word out via the friend network.
2006-07-22 16:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to be on guard. Continue to talk to her, but don't put your all into something, when she dont know what she wants. Their is nothing wrong with hanging out, or talking every once in awhile. The girl might have second thought of if she should see you or someone else. It also could mean that she feels you begin to like her to fast and she got a little scared, so she back off a little. If she feels that you are a good man, she'll come around and be that person she use to be to you. If not, then just stay friends. Just dont put your all into her to fast, you dont want to get disappointed.
2006-07-22 17:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by hunny_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. As you can see the space thing worked. Women need a challenge. The trick is to give em some honey and then take it away. They get arroused when you take it away. They will never apreciate you if they take you for granted.
If you really want to take it to the next level let her see you with other chicks.
2006-07-22 16:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by ricaca123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds similar to my friends...and um..she ended up not liking him like..at all and he's still head over heels for her and ya...she's doing the same as ur girl there. and she doesn't like him at all... and even thought they talked everyday. she now feels nothing for him in that way and wants him to leave her alone..
but good luck
2006-07-22 16:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when she does come over just flat out ask her ......"will you go out with me"....that is what you have to ask her so u don't feel ansey about it any more...ok
2006-07-22 16:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylee D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋