I still have feelings for my ex. I don't know if he likes me or not. I'd like to go out with him again because i really miss him. How can i get him to think i am not just an ex anymore and get him to like me... and maybe even go out with me.
2006-07-22 16:23:46 · 20 answers · asked by liberos-are-fun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well are you sure you want to go that road again... whatever happened before might happen again...you can not make him think of you as his ex but if you can work out your problems then maybe you do have a chance.. i guess that will remain to be seen when you find out if he would like to go out with you again...well i wish you the luck and hope the best for you...i tried going back to my ex husbands before and it does never work.. but maybe you will find out different.. mine was all abusive and not faithful.. but lots of people have went back and made it better the 2nd time around.. it depends on both of you and working on your relationship
2006-07-22 17:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Fist, sit down and think really hard about WHY he is your ex. Something must have been wrong. People tend to remember the good times and forget the bad. Remember why you're not together anymore. Then, get up and start over again without him. He's your ex for a reason! Move on.
2006-07-22 23:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL yeah that was basically the same situation that I went through not too long ago-I broke up with a guy then we both realized that we still liked each other a little later on, but never went out again and are still friends. So, what do you think? Now that you've broke up him, don't be afraid to evaluate how the relationship was. Did he treat you like he should've? Could you actually trust him? Did you want/need more out of the relationship (like my ex did not meet my emotional needs). Ask yourself questions like these. And of course it might help to remember why you broke up. Hope it works out if it's meant to be!
2006-07-22 23:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by jamie_unsolved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good hard look at why ya'll broke up in the first place - do you really think it could work in the long term? If you're not sure - ask your friends, they'll be able to tell you.
If you still want him back, talk to him about it, and talk through why ya'll broke up the first time and how you might be able to work that issue out in the future. Just talk to him, there's no magic formula!
2006-07-22 23:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by A Tiger in Athens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to go out. Start slowly and then work your way up. A lot of exes get back together. They realize that breaking up was a terrible mistake.
2006-07-22 23:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make anyone change the way they feel about you. You can tell them you are interested in getting together sometime. If he has any feelings for you he'll go out, if not don't be crushed by it. It just means that he isn't the one you are destined to be with. Trust me, I had to go through two engagement proposals (I said no to both of them) before I found the right guy.
2006-07-22 23:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you see him try to make eye contact with him. when you make eye contact, give him a sweet smile. if he smiles back and blushes a little, then he likes you. if he gives you a weird look, or just a little smile... then he probably doesn't like you. the best think you could do is talk to him.. but I'd understand if you wouldn't want to do that. if he shows signs of still liking you, you should definatley ask him out!! good luck!
2006-07-22 23:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's usually a valid reason that an ex is an ex. Think about it, and good luck.
2006-07-22 23:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by dressed_2_kill_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the two of you get into a good mood when you hang out, mention something about how much fun you think you guys had together. Then, if he reciprocates, you should bring up a possibility of getting back together.
2006-07-22 23:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by veinposeur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off being friends again before you get into a relationship with him. Because he may have changed in a way you may not like.
2006-07-22 23:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by gh0zts_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋