What is the reason older guys go 4 younger girls?, I have heard them say they arent jaded like older chicks but I kno some crazy b*tches that r my age, and also some guys say they want a girl who is "tight" and older women arent, but how the young girls on here and that I see on the street, it seems they r as used up as women in their 30s.
2006-07-22 16:15:26 · 22 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. Im not crazy, and Im not used up, tight as hell.
2006-07-22 16:16:06 · update #1
i think it is because they want to be young again themselves.
2006-07-22 16:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well Older guys can feel younger when they're with younger women. I don't really think that's the question. The real question is "why do younger women like older men" and that is because they represent security. They're even more attractive if they're married - because then you know that you can have a relationship, if they're cheating, and yet their 'safe' because you know there's always room for someone your own age. Older men are usually just using younger women. They feel better with someone young on their arm - more "yah, I can get one"..... I'm more curious why a young women would go out with an older man. Actually I'm happily married, but if I were looking, it'd be a younger man. Men age faster than women so it makes more sense to marry a younger guy..... that way you're physically the same age as you get older....HA....!!
2006-07-22 23:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL thanks for the "tight as hell" afterthought...
A lot of times older men find younger women attractove because they go through this process called "A Mid-Life Crisis", where they start looking back on their lives, thinking about all the fun they didn't have, going to school to get a good job to buy crap and bigger houses to store the crap in and newer cars cuz we dont want ot be outdone by the Joneses and... you get the picture.
Sometimes, it's a maturity thing. Women are always saying men arent mature. When older men date younger women, they're just seeking women their own level of maturity.
It really doesnt have anything to do with "tight" or not. Older women can KEEP themsleves tight by practicing an exercise known as "Kaegals". I find older women (women my age I mean) to be much more aggressive about sex, more relaxed and open about it. Younger women are flighty, and fickle as hell; one minute they're all over you, the next they're dancing with the young stud from the end of the bar.
Guys who go for young "trophy" girlsfriends are setting themselves for a fall. They can never truly know if the girl is there for HIM, or the fact he was just bought out by Microsoft and retired at 45 as a multimillionaire.
2006-07-22 23:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm turning 37 this Saturday, and honestly, most single women over, say, 30 have children, and I don't want children. I get along great with kids (I still consider myself one.....always will....and I know the diff between being a kid and being immature), but I just don't want to go there. If I'm dating someone and we want to just go some place without much planning, we can. Drive down to Cape Cod for a weekend, up to the mountains (I'm from NH), Boston, whatever. You can kinda be spontaneous. That does limit my options, and I understand that. I know that limits my options and I accept that, but that's my opinion. And to share an experience, I dated a 21-year old last summer, and we lasted 4 months. She had no problem with my age at all and she was great. Go out on weekends, but not get hammered. Really mature, but I think she got a lot of pressure because of my age from friends and family, and I guess I couldn't blame her. But everything else was there, so it can happen.
2006-07-25 21:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by spacedog1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well older girls meaning experience is the key to the question , younger ladies are much more open to just trying to have fun and not look for a heavy involvement .older women again it should be more experienced woman are to judgmental and use old experiences as rules of thumbs so to speak, this cause them to be what guys call ,, a class A ***** { fed up with guys} i can go on and on ,, i wish girls would be more open to sex ,, then tieing all kinds of strings around it ,, just have good safe sexual gratification and a friendship,, doesn;t have to get all bent out of shape and way to serious,,,, in other words what the heck are all the hangups about sex,,, gee wizz ,, make it fun and respectful and ofcourse above all safe {{ to much garbage}} girls are guys with different hats ,, same **** different hat ,, get over it !!
2006-07-22 23:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by paul l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right with the younger girls being just as used up if not more used like an old tea bag...i do have a younger girl who has feelings for me, but I'm not into younger girls...she is everything i want in a girl and just happens to be young and she isn't a used tea bag...not a fan of dirty tea lol
2006-07-22 23:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks crap...you know the young dudettes will have immature decisions yet act old for the guys, and don't even know their taken advantaged. Not "cool" to let loose on the inexperienced
Try being friendly and some might think otherwise...maturity levels are a risky outlook. Potential to be blinded by what's not "real"
I could ramble...but might get annoyed at society's flaws *shrugs*
2006-07-22 23:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Introverted White Waves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a maturity thing.... girls are more mature on average than guys the same age. Some older guys still haven't matured past a particular point.....
If the guys are only looking for sex, don't give them time of day.... They only want to use you. You are worth so much more than that as a human being.
2006-07-22 23:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by A Tiger in Athens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a older man, 43, and me personally i prefer younger girls just because their more fun to be around, and help keep me young, and of course the sex is better, most younger girls arent afraid to try new things, as oppsed to older women.
and then again, most women my age have kids, and right now i would rather be an uncle than a dad, unless it's my own kids
2006-07-22 23:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by rc3024 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how often you have sex you will never be loose down there. Your skin actually goes back to normal after sex. Older guys go for younger girls because younger girls are pressured into stuff easier than older ones. Just because they are older than you does not mean they are better in bed or at other stuff.
2006-07-22 23:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by wanttoconcieveinemporia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they ask questions like you asked, instead of what is your total net worth, Or why aren't you married? Younger girls don't try to outline what career moves you should be making, their usually just interested in having fun, and looking good. Most smart young girls only have one problem and that is lack of money.
2006-07-23 00:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by Gingerbread Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋