I am going to go help my step-mom (who is jewish) help cook chava at her synagogue for a jewish sisterhood. I am christian & I was wondering if it was even okay to cook in that kitchen. I dont want to ask my step-mom because it might come accross as being rude. Anyways, I just need some help on the rules of strict kosher kitchen. Any answers would be appreciated!
2006-07-22 16:10:45 · 17 answers · asked by heygirl1914 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I mean, would it affend the Jews there if I cook something because I am gentile.
2006-07-22 16:15:55 · update #1
You wouldn't offend if you simply ask about ding things correctly. Kosher has specific rules and your step-mom would probably be happy to show you what to do and what not to do if you show an interest and ask.
2006-07-22 17:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know all the rules of the kosher kitchen, but I know a little. There are two sets of kitchen dishes and utensils and pots/pans in a kosher kitchen; one for meats and one for dairies. You see, "milk and meat" cannot touch the same plate, or be served at the same meal. For example, a cheeseburger is a big no no! If you are cooking with your stepmother, she can instruct you on what to do, and I'm sure the rabbi or the sisterhood will make sure the food being made is alright. Hope this helps!
2006-07-22 16:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as you probably know already, Kosher simply means the kitchen has been blessed by a Rabbi, and if you are married to a Jewish man, you should know the fundamental rules, about meat and milk and that, so if mom in law was comfortable enough to invite you, go on and have fun, just stick close and do as she does.
2006-07-22 16:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a well established habit to have Christians do things for Jewish people. During Sabbath, when they are not supposed to light fires, etc. they used to hire a Christian to come in and do it for them.
There is no reason at all why your help would not be welcomed by your mother-in-law. The main thing you have to watch is not mixing up utensils. There is one set for kosher (or ritually clean), another for tref (or ordinary) and under NO circumstances must you mix them up. Other than that, just watch your MIL and do what she does. Or ask her. She'll probably be delighted that you are taking an interest.
2006-07-22 17:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the best of my knowledge, kosher means that you don't mix meat and dairy.At all.Pork is a definite no-no.It should be okay for you to help cook as long as you keep to the rules.You could try asking your step mom 'Hi,(name),I don't mean to offend you at all, but I really would like to help you cook, but I'm not sure what the rules are exactly.Would you please help me? I'd really like to learn.' Usually in a kosher kitchen, for preparing food, there's a separate counter,sink,utensils and dishes for dairy and another counter, sink, utensils and dishes for meat.Do not mix the dishes and utensils.Meat stays with meat, dairy stays with dairy.Hope this helps a little!
2006-07-22 16:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I view it as you're being a good Samaritan.. so i don't see why it would be wrong.. I'm not sure on the rules of a strict kosher kitchen.. i think NO pork.. but whatever..lol. I'm sure your step-ma will help return your favor of helping you out as well.. I think it would be a great learning experience..getting to know different cultures.. but no matter.. have fun!!!
2006-07-22 16:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by smartstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Koesher doesn't break any of the rules of christianity as far as I know (unless it involves eating fish on Friday).
You should be respectful of the Koesher kitchen though. Be sure not to mix dairy and meat. Don't stick dishes that have touched dairy into the dishwasher for meat. Don't stick meat in the dairy fridge.
2006-07-22 16:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of christinaty is based in jewdisim in aslightly differnt way IE. the different view of Jesus as either a great rabbi or the savior of their race.
As long as you know the rules of cooking Kosher and follow them there should be no reason why you cann't help out. its just a matter of prespective.
2006-07-22 16:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine! There is nothing wrong with kosher cooking. Many Christians prefer to eat kosher.
2006-07-22 16:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by David T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kosher deals with the food, handling ect. and it is her job to know all that not yours.
As long as the kosher rules are followed, anyone can cook it.
2006-07-22 16:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by tiggis2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋