Next week I am putting my 21 year old daughter on a bus to her brother's. I can no longer deal with her. Everything her father and i tried to teach her she turned her back on. She has a beautiful 11 month daughter. I have custody. The baby is not going. She won't take care of her now. Do you folks think this is right?
2006-07-22 16:07:28 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think at 21 there's not much you can do with her now. It's too bad you have to start raising a baby again but unless you turn her over to child services she's yours. Poor baby. You can only hope now that your daughter will grow up while she's away from you. Maybe that will give her the direction she's now lacking.
2006-07-22 16:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything except the fact that you are sending her to her brothers, it's not his job to take care of her, she's an adult and needs to do things herself. I feel sorry for her brother in away,but in away I don't, I assume he agreed to it. The most important person here is the baby though and I think she probably is better off with you. Good luck and god bless.
2006-07-23 01:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to let her live her own life, she is 21. It is prolly best that you are sending her somewhere else for awhile. Hopefully she get straigten herself out with the help of her brother.
2006-07-22 23:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think your making the right choice she is an adult and has a child she needs to grow up. Personally i would've just booted her and let her figure the rest out but to each their own.. But yes stand up to your decision and stick to it..
2006-07-22 23:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by mourningdove73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's her brothers place to deal with her. you should just kick her out and let her land on her own two feet. She will have to sink or swim.
2006-07-22 23:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXXX yes, you are doing the right thing. Why give your granddaughter to a mom who hasn't grown up herself. I applaud you grandma. Take care of that sweet precious kid. Good luck hun. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-22 23:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..I agree on your decision
2006-07-22 23:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mum knows best is wat i say
if u think shes not fit enough to look after her own kid well then yes i do think its right
2006-07-22 23:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋