When me and my bf talk on the phone sometimes there is a weird silents when we dont have anything else to say. I hate it when that happens! Is there anything i can do or say to make it go away?
2006-07-22 15:51:46 · 8 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you seen pulp fiction?
during it is a scene Uma Thurmans character explains to John Travoltas character that 2 ppl are really comfortable with each other when they can share silence together.
Mia: Don't you hate that?
Vincent: What?
Mia: Uncomfortable silences. Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshit in order to be comfortable?
Vincent: I don't know. That's a good question.
Mia: That's when you know you've found somebody special. When you can just shut the **** up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence
i dont know how to make it go away. but you may not truly be comfortable with him if you cant shut up and enjoy the silence.
2006-07-22 16:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
its always like that in the beigning once you guys get more comfortable with each other it eventually goes away, but untilt hen just bear with it. somet hings u could do is write down a efw th ings u could talk about and whenver it happesn just make him laugh. i did that before >.< it eventualyl cahnges, ist just when urn ot comfortalble >< it goes away dont worry hunny
2006-07-22 22:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by LORLF ROFL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens with a lot of people. Just start talking about whatever is on your mind.
2006-07-22 22:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird silence? It's called static, want it to go away, then keep talking.
2006-07-22 22:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is. When that happens again do some baby talk....You know, goo goo goo goo gaa gaa gaa gaa goo goo gaa gaa goo goo gaa gaa goo goo gaa gaa. If that don't work, blow a fart into the phone.....Your bound to here something in return.
2006-07-22 22:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you can just joke about say "dont you hate these quiet moments" maybe he is thinking the same exact thing!
2006-07-22 22:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking.
2006-07-22 22:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laugh... because it IS funny... trust me.
2006-07-22 22:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋