how can i get back at my older snobby sister that dips in my life and insaults me on every thing i do? She acks like she jelous or something. How can i get her off my back about stuff. I mean she has her own life in Gearmany with a husband , a child and one on the way and she has the nerve to call me up and start talking s-hit to me about who i am and how dumb i am. I have my own life here in kentucky with my fiance. What do you think i should do?
2006-07-22 15:48:45 · 25 answers · asked by love_lust_andpower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have no clue what your talking about i don't have a problem.....but you know what i do now i don't dip into your life i have no reason to but you are only 17 and think you need to be married to the first guy that comes along that my problem your too Young to be thinking about being married hell your still a sophomore and 17 years old your so busy worrying about guys you cant even past your grade and that mouth of yours need to go as a matter of fact that don't sound like my sis. it sounds like her boyfriend that needs to move on with his own life and let you live yours. yes you told mom you was not having sex and i will tell her you are lying to her and you know what you can die from haveing sex at a young age i know i almost did its called cancer and you can get it from haveing sex to early ask mom. so you know what im your older sis and no matter what i will always try to guid you and if you dont like it sorry get used to it.
2006-07-23 05:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by l3luecrush 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes little sister, you have to look at the source. Your older sister might just be having a difficult pregnancy, and has decided to take it out on you. Often is the case, we feel as if someone should understand without saying the words. Right now she needs to be heard, realize the pain behind her words, think how you feel being so far away from your sibling? I am sure the words she spoke come from a lonely place deep within her heart. You must rise above her cruel sense of projecting, her sorrows are not yours, Just be the sweet little sister, that you are, the best revenge is living well. do not allow her bitterness to color your world.
2006-07-22 23:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by TWINKLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a younger sister and she is the same way. Here is what i do, it will make her so mad. Be nice!! tell her she is correct that you are so dumb, that you are truely sorry that she cant live her own life because she has to take care of you.Tell her that you will try to do you best. Next time something small comes up like what color of shirt to wear call her and ask her, do this many many times. Sooner or later she will but out.
2006-07-22 22:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change you friggen number. She'll get over it. I am sure you love her and all but there comes a time when you either tell her to be a better sister and be nicer or just loose touch with her for a while maybe it will make her appreciate that fact that she has a brother more.
2006-07-22 22:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back at your sister, that will just make things worse. Instead, tell her to stay out of your business. If she doesn't, cut her off for a while, don't take her phone calls/emails/im, just cut her off for a while to let her know that she has not right disrupt your life.
2006-07-22 22:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to interfere in your life. You have your own life. If she keeps it up put a call block on your phone so she can't contact you. Then go to school and learn correct grammar and spelling.
2006-07-22 22:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to worry about her own life and let you live yours.She's obviosly had the chance to make a life for herself and find happiness(or maybe she's not and that's why she's up your but :-) and you deserve that chance too. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-22 22:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by heatherfarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she calls and starts in on you hang up on her. Let her know that every time she starts talking all that crap in you will not speak to her. Why listen to somebody berate you, especially if it's your own sister?
2006-07-22 22:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this....the next time she calls you and starts acting nuts...hang up the phone. Hang up the phone each and every time she does this and eventually either she'll stop acting nuts or she'll stop calling. Either way you'll be a winner.
2006-07-22 22:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sisters can be straight up Bit%ches!!! Trust me i have 2...some times their lives can get so hectic and crappy that they take it out on you and what ever they find fault in your life ...thats what they probably feel in their life!!! Sometimes they try to look out for you but get carried away...you have to tell your sister how you feel...Tell her hey...i know i have my faults but so do you!!! And i really dont need your advice...so chill out or your gonna ruin our relationship!!!! And if she still doesnt get it...try giving her the silent treatment!!! lol...just dont give up on her!!!!
2006-07-22 22:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋