he was my bf, he was my 1st kiss(when we weren't dating) i've never kissed him while we were bf/gf. i hug him, i sit on his lap...but i can't say i love him. he would really die 4 me, & he tells me he luvs me constantly, but i can't say it back. y not? & i've gone out w/ him 3 times. y do i keep letting him hug, kiss & tell me he loves me, if i say i don't love him? what's wrong w/ me, & y can' ti say i love him, when it seems i do? i don't want to luv him, but maybe i do. help!!!
2006-07-22 15:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like it's not really love...sorry. I think you enjoy the companionship of being with him and it sounds like he's probably a nice guy, but he's not getting you excited or making you think of him 24/7. If you really love someone, you'll definitely know it. That guy will be your one and only and you won't be able to think of anything else.
2006-07-22 15:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him, you would know it without any hesitation. Keep in mind that there are different forms of love. You love your parents, your friends, and romantic love is something very different. It could be that while you do sincerely care about him as a friend, as someone very dear to you, he is not the one that you want to spend your life with. Only you can answer this question.
2006-07-22 22:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by koresh419 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you just have this feeling as if your leading him on in a way and you dont know how to break it to him,that you dont feel the same way.
sit him down,have an "adult" conversation. Discuss it and tell him why,make sure you have a reason why,dont be mechanical.
Both you and he, will see it was in the best interest of both of you.
2006-07-22 22:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You can't force feelings on yourself. You just have to let them come naturally. Just ask him to chill with saying I love you if it bothers you a lot. I'm sure he will. Or then he'll ask why and just be blunt. Just say I'm not sure if I'm in love with you yet. And sometimes I love you doesn't mean you're in love. It could mean that you care about that person...a lot. You don't have to be IN love to say it. <3.
2006-07-22 22:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by country_comfort16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a rare and precious comodity. It's really difficult to hurt someone who shares their love with us. It takes a very long time to figure out romantic love, give yourself time and date around.
2006-07-22 22:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by dressed_2_kill_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 young
2006-07-22 22:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, a guy that has to constantly tell a girl that he loves her when she doesn't not return his affection need to seek therapy.
2006-07-22 22:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg..so my bf was my first kiss and first serious conversation and first date...and not sure of anything else, but he told me that he loved me and i can't seem to say it back but i told him that when i was ready that i would it and he was okay with it...so anyways, maybe ur in love with him but can't seem to tell him b/c ur scared? not sure but it sounds like me quite a bit...lol.
2006-07-22 22:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥HOOTERS GURL♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok set down and think about this your feelings for him and how you look at him.if your anything like me you won't tell someone you love them unless your for shore. i had the same problem,but i didn't love him. he told me time and time again,but i could never say it back nomatter how hard i tried.my suggustion is to set down and think about it. figure out your ins and outs. hope i helped. good luck.
2006-07-22 22:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you love him and let him know that u really care.
2006-07-22 22:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by KAYLEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋