theres a guy and i really like love him so much that it hurts cause we had somthing really special then it all fell to pieces its been like 8 months he says he loves me but he means it a diff way were friends but im still loving him and hurting what can i do
he knows how i feel but he doesnt wanna date anyone for a while
2006-07-22 15:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by annie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im saying how can i get over him!
2006-07-22 15:31:01 · update #1
ok its not like that were like good friends and stuff hes not dating at all till hes ready to get married and im not chasing him either lol and yes he was my first love
2006-07-22 15:43:10 · update #2
Gurl. you have to be strong & move on. for yourself. Learn what it is that can make you happy. There's many guys out there, the longer you hang on, the more your gonna hurt.
2006-07-22 15:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty much up to you. you have 1 of 2 choices that you can make in your life right now? 1 you can either stay the way you are and keep on hurting and being in pain that you dont need to be going thru cause any guy thats a friend is not worth it. 2 you can move on and take all that as a lesson in life to better yourself and just move on it pretty obviouse he doesnt want you back so get off the cross and just move on.
2006-07-22 15:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by ningamunkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 02:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way he tell you he is not interested and not hurt you. If you want him step back and let him chase you. If you chase him he will just run.
2006-07-22 15:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just need to give the boy his space. At least he's not dating anyone... that's a pretty good sign.
2006-07-22 15:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Moody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first love? Let it go, sweetie. Open your eyes to other options. You'll be happier in the long run.
2006-07-22 15:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by blocheredna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on honey, he is being nice and not trying to hurt your feelings. find someone else.
2006-07-22 15:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He may be fond of you and have positive feelings about you, but it isn't love.
Forget him and move on with your life.
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-07-22 15:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, he doesn't love you the way that you love him. he loves you like a friend. let him go and find someone else.
2006-07-22 15:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get. ignore him and he may realize that he really likes. If not, then you know where he stands and you can get on with your life.
2006-07-22 15:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by R T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋