He's a nice guy, I don't want to live with him though. I do want him to help take care of the baby. He got me pregnant when we were filming porn.
Should I make him help take care of the child? He said he would help as long as he doesn't have to live with me.
2006-07-22 15:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
abosolutely he should help pay for the child. fathers take care of their children long-distance all the time. your best bet is to get this taken care of through the court systems, because right now to your face he may seem eager to help... but down the road he might chicken out.
2006-07-22 15:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Karen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make him take care of the child emotionally or physically but he is financially responsible. If he knows about the child and wants to be a parent -and do things for and with the child then I would encourage that. Children need 2 loving parents.
2006-07-23 01:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him call the shots,allowing him 2 do so will only empower him...u set the standard for who and how your child will be raised and how much time if any he will contribute to your child.not only will you feel more in control about the situation but he will know upfront that you are the captain of this ship.i have 6 children honey and I am the chief.....he is the Indian.although it takes 2 to make a child..it only takes 1 strong person 2 raise 1
2006-07-22 22:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by mzz stacia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u serious thats a horrible way to get pregnant, u were filming porn, how r u sure its his, first off if u hadn't already get a paternity test done, for the baby's sake, and second quit doing porn, do u really want to put ur baby around that, they'll end up having a baby at like 6, or getting an incurable disease, they'll think its ok to just have sex whenever with whoever, and thats not fair to them
2006-07-22 22:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, make him help you. The baby deserves a father. And you should not have to go this alone. If he gives you trouble, get a court order for child support. (which you should probably do anyway)
2006-07-22 22:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his name on baby's birth certificate. Get a copy of his social security number. Tell him you don't want him to live with you but you are setting up an account for the baby and you will expect him to deposit money directly in the account. Try to keep it friendly. If he doesn't' make payments, take it to court and make it unfriendly.
2006-07-22 22:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ohio Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late to adopt your kid to a loving, intact home?
If it is too late, pursue financial rights through the courts. It's your child's money, not yours. Do your child a favor and get proper child support.
Then grow up. And learn how to take those cute little pills.
2006-07-26 20:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by freebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have an interest in the baby or not.If he doesnt plan on being in it for the long-haul just make sure he gives you child support
2006-07-22 22:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is his baby too, he has a wright to him. If he is willing to a good dad, loves his baby then do your baby and yourself a favor and let him be a part of his childs life and let him help any way that he can.
2006-07-22 22:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tara S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him pay child support and be a part of your childs life if he doesnt want too then find someone else who will
2006-07-22 22:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋