WHY?
2006-07-22 15:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and i married him. we are divorced now. i got tired of not having what i deserved. i don't know why. immature i guess.
2006-07-22 15:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by allofthat7464 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and it was the wrong thing to do. People usually settle when they do not think they can do better or when they believe they are not worth it. You must never settle for less than you deserve because then you run the risk of being abused. I would rather be single than be with someone who treated me like sh*it!
2006-07-22 15:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I still haven't figured out why! Must have been voodoo or something because he was a REAL LOSER! Somebody I never would have even looked at twice under normal circumstances. I must have had a break down or something. When I came to myself we'd been married for 3 months! I mean this guy was a total LOSER! He quit his job, lied about everything, and was sexually impotent. (I didn't believe in premarital sex, but I'd asked if he had problems, of course, he lied.) I'm glad we never really consummated the marriage. Yes, we tried counseling. He lied to the counselor too. I put him out of my house and filed for divorce. The day it came through was one of the happiest of my life!
I used to spend a lot of time trying to figure out WHY I did that to myself. Then one day I just decided, what's done is done, forgave myself, forgave him for being a LOSER and moved on with my life.
That was 5 years ago.
Now I'm in love with someone I find very attractive, very productive and with whom I can share mutual respect.
2006-07-22 15:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I was 26, and I though it was time to settle down, so I got married to the first girl I met, NOT a good idea.
2006-07-22 15:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Brent M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did and I ended up completely miserable! I guess I settled because everyone else liked him and he was a really nice guy...just not the one for me.
2006-07-22 15:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone, there's no 'less than' or 'greater than' factor in it...if you think he's someone 'less than' what you deserve, then, maybe you dont really love him...if you love someone, you think of him as your equal no matter what..why settle if you think you deserve him? either you love him or you dont...
2006-07-22 15:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I did once, but I didn't know what I was thinking and it didn't last long... I think she was the one that broke up with me, claiming that she settled....lol
2006-07-22 15:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never!!
don't ever sell yourself short. have standards and aim high, you deserve it!
NEVER SETTLE for anything less than you deserve
2006-07-22 15:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once there was this girl who lived down the street from me and from the moment we met she was really into me. I wasn't really into her at all but i couldn't bring my self to hurt her feelings by telling her I wasn't interested. So she kept trying, and one night I ended up getting drunk and hooked up with her and I really regretted it the next morning.
2006-07-22 15:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by the_world_is_yours44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋