im 15 and my sister renee is skipping school.. she drives into the parking lot of her high school then a few seconds later drives away for the rest of the day until its time to go home. i love her dearly.. and she would hate me if i told mom and dad. plz help me.
2006-07-22 14:51:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe she's getting laid.
2006-07-22 14:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by psych0bug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know its a good thing you are concerned with your sister. But this is something underneath her skipping school, if its not pressure from her friends it could be going to have sex,or drugs. Either way,investigate why before you jump to anything.
Personally as a 17 year old girl myself, I do know that people think its cool to skip school and do what ever they feel like while doing it. But maybe she doesn't quite understand the consquences of her actions,and what she may be doing is gonna put a damper on her education.
Tell her of your concern,and then threaten with the possibilites of telling your parents.
2006-07-22 15:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the bottom line is this... Your sister is NOT an adult if she was she would know how important it is to be in school.. NOW what would happen if your sister got into a bad accident by cutting would you feel bad because you didn't tell?
I will put it like this yes your sister might hate you for telling, but if you don't she might end up in bad places she shouldn't.. If you do tell it might save her life and change her ways.
No one can tell you the right thing to do, but you have to ask yourself.. Save your life, or watch her drown it a sense.. Pray to keep her safe in the streets of unknown your her sister and friend you have to do the right thing.. In a few years you two will be talking about the life change
2006-07-22 14:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think your parent would react to this? I know i use/skip school and my mom was like oh well cant stop you but my aunt oh no she said she was gonna put me in boarding school or church school so yeah but then again how often would she skip? i skipped 2 months straight a class and i skip school to go hang out at some friends house or go to a nearby lake but anyways its a part of life youll be doing it too
2006-07-22 14:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by magdaleal14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi kammi,
first try to find out what she does after driving into parking lot.
does she have any other reasons for driving out or her friends insist her to do so. i think u are a wise kid sis. so find out whether she has
any bad habits which perhaps u may not knowing. try 2 resolve this problem by discussing with u r sis. dont tell 2 ur parents as it is not good for u both.may be u r parents may take this issue very seriously.............
2006-07-22 15:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by veena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her softly and ask if anything is troubling on her mind, maybe she will allow you to sign her up for the counselour, but just dont tell about the skipping school part, of course somewhere down the road your parents will find out because the school will call saying she hasnt showed up for school lately!
2006-07-22 14:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Boy, You're My Lucky Star<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hasn't the school contacted your parents to let them know she's skipping school? You should speak to the counselor at your school and let her know that you're worried your sister is skipping. Give her permission to contact your parents without letting them know that it was you who told. Good luck.
2006-07-22 14:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she only did it occasionally id say to let her be. but if shes doing it all the time, talk to her. try to get her to start going to school. tell her how much u love her and that u are concerned about her. if that doesnt work... tell ur parents, but tell them to tell her that the school found out. that way ur helping ur sister without having her be pissed off at u for "ratting her out"
good luck!
2006-07-22 15:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really should talk to her first and ask her y shes skipping school, then if u have to mildly "threaten" her with youll tell your parents if she doesnt stop. and if she continues to skip school then tell your parents, and if she gets mad at u she'll get over it eventually, and youll be helpin her out even is she thinks youre not.
2006-07-22 15:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, she will thank you for it later. You can't get very far in this world without an education unless you are extremely lucky... but it still doesn't happen. Tell your parents ASAP!
2006-07-22 14:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by lana7180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that you know and unless she gets her act together you will tell Mom and Dad.
Mom and Dad will find out soon anyway.
2006-07-22 14:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by Diane D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋