2006-07-22 14:35:48 · 18 answers · asked by zane m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course it's okay - would your aunt rather have you having fun, or attending a funeral. Surely the former. Don't feel guilty - just close your eyes and tell her what your favourite thing was about her and how much you will miss it.
2006-07-22 14:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
Your aunt probably would have wanted you to stay. Don't feel bad about it. Try to remember all the memories you had with your aunt. If you have a journal, write about your aunt and have your own memorial by writing down your thoughts and feelings of her. Grieving is a personal experience and I think just thinking of her through your memories is just as important as being at a service. Take care xxx.
2006-07-22 21:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been to a funeral and being away at camp is a better excuse than I have had for some of them. Just try to be respectful to everyone while they are alive and what happens to them after they pass away will not be as important.
2006-07-22 21:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by thenuge426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was your choice to stay at camp, wasn't it? It's your choice to either stay or attend your aunt's funeral. The good thing is that you can say goodbye to your aunt anytime.
2006-07-22 21:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are not expected to attend funerals of relatives who are not in their immediate family. It was fine that you stayed at camp.
2006-07-22 21:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it was OK. you can always pay your respect. when you come home. i sure your aunt wouldn't mind, she know you love her very much. sorry to hear about that. you hang in their. when someone dies. it's always hard on everyone. it will all get better each day that go's by.
2006-07-22 22:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt would have wanted you to live your life and have fun. She's probably smiling down on your now.
2006-07-22 21:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had fun at camp I am certain your Aunt would have wanted that, don't you?
2006-07-22 21:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it about the relation between u & her
& u who know is that ok or not
some p cry & some will be happy
just follow u r heart sweaty
2006-07-22 21:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that isn't ok u should be at the funeral and spending time with your family that is really rude!!!
2006-07-22 21:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by So Sexi in PINK!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋