What if i die while giving the birth?

Question

no, i am serious this time.I am only 14.What can happen to me?Do you think there is any chance?Is everything gonna be ok with me?

Answer 1

IF YOU GOTO YOUR PRENATAL VISITS AS ORDERED BY YOUR OB DOCTOR, THEN YOU WILL BE AWARE OF ANY COMPLICATIONS THAT MAY OCCUR. BEING SO YOUNG MAKE SURE YOU HAVE PRENATAL VITAMINS AND PRENATAL NURTURING!

Answer 2

Every1 thinks the worst. it's normal 4 every mum-to-be 2 have worries about the birth. i was so scared having my 2 boys but while it's happening u dont have time 2 think what could go wrong, u just really want 2 get the baby out.
it hurts like hell but it's very unlikely that anything will happen because it's the most natural thing in the world.
don't listen 2 the ppl on here, just because ur young doesn't mean u'll be a bad mother. u just have 2 make sure ur priorities r right, baby comes first at all times. i had my first baby at 19 and my sister had hers at 17, i'm now 21, my eldest is nearly 3yrs old.
if u need any advice or reassurance my addy is [e-mail]
hope i can help, good luck

Answer 3

gregreason and JP shouldn't be allowed on here if they are going to b so pathetic as to judge and frighten people like that. Try not to take any notice of them. They are the real losers. U may have got yourself in2 a difficult situation that's far from ideal but that's life. I don't know the statistics but i would think that ur in more danger of getting ill from stressing about things than ur from dying giving birth. And it cant help your stress levels with morons going on at u like that. Whats done is done. its going to b the hardest thing u've ever done but I'd put money on u being just fine if u go 2 all your antenatal appointments. Read all u can (what to expect when you're expecting is a good book- get it 2nd hand on eBay) and ask lots of questions at the appointments. Go 2 www.motherandbabymagazine.com 4 friendly info. When i was pregnant last year i felt much more confident and relaxed when i had the facts. I felt too young and unready and I was 22 so I dread to think how scared u must b! But don't worry- just show 'em all u can do it and prove those narrow-minded twits wrong and make a great life 4 u and your baby who ur gonna love with all your heart. Good luck sweetie! ;-)

Answer 4

You will be ok, it will hurt you (sometimes so much that you'd wish you were dead), but you'll get through it. You are not the first and unfortunately not the last 14 year old who's given birth/ is going to give birth. It is natural for you to worry, I am nearly 30 and had a baby 10 weeks ago and still worried. But nature designed our bodies in such a way that for the majority of us although very painful and long, it is managable with not too much intervention. Wish you all the best and hope you have the support you need in what is i'm sure a difficult but a very special time in your life.

Answer 5

you'll be fine, but your youth and all of the fun you could've had as a young adult, and a legal adult and your 21st birthday, will never happen. I'm not sure what the circumstances were for you to get pregnant, but you probably made a really immature mistake. And more than likely, since you are unsuitable to be a mother, your child will grow up to be a trouble maker, and you will work at a fast food restaurant for the rest of your life. And I'm sure you think your parents will help you raise them? Pretty soon you'll take advantage of them and go out when you are older because you want to party and leave them at home to take care of the kid. Then you'll fight with your parents and you kid will grow up to be a criminal or dope head good for nothing loser. This is a tell-tale sign of how petty criminals start out.

Their parents were immature and unqualified as parents, and they have no idea what the difference is between right and wrong.

Good luck raising and kid that's not much younger than you are you piece of sh*t. Oh yeah, of course there is a possibility, but you won't die....

Answer 6

everyone leave her alone! she's here asking because she is scared. hunny it's very rare you will die in child birth. everything is going to be ok. you still need to tell your mother though so you can see the doctor and make sure everything is going ok. the sooner the better. just get it out in the open. tell her you know you messed up but what's done is done and you just want to do what's right and have a healthy baby, then go from there, wether it's keeping the baby or giving it up. if you keep the baby you can get daycare vouchers so you can finish school and get a job, then go to college and make your baby proud that you pulled through and did good. i KNOW you can do it or you wouldn't be here looking for support.

Answer 7

My step daughter had a baby when she was 14.
The doctors and the nurses will take very good care of you. You will not die having a baby. It hurts a lot, but pain will not kill you.
Talk to the doctor and tell him how scared you are and he will help you as much as possible.
Tell the nurses you are afraid and they will be there with you every step of the way just because you are 14.
Your going to be fine
I am a registered nurse and know these things.

Answer 8

It doesn' matter about your age anyone can die during child birth. It doesn't happen often now days, but it does happen. 14 year old girls have babies all the time and make it through. I'm twenty and just given birth two months ago. It was complicated. Just going through thre process of giving birth makes you feel like you are going to die.

Answer 9

Death during childbirth is extremely rare - I think theres more chance of you being knocked over by a car whilst crossing the road than dying in childbirth. Its only natural for any female who is pregnant to have these types of fears (I bet you have terrible nightmares about your baby being deformed etc too? - thats very very normal! all women do!)
The midwives will care for you very carefully and any problems will be picked up right away and the right course of action will be taken. The technology available today is excellent and so is the training and excellence of the staff.
Enjoy your baby.
Chrissy

Answer 10

hey, calm down! I'm assuming you're pregnant, but if not DON'T!Forget a section - thats a major op and carries many complications although popular in the US cos they hate any kind of pain. Although you are very young emotionally to be having children, physically you will be fine as your body is mature enough to get pregnant. When I was 14, my body had matured - wide hips and 5 foot 8 tall. I would urge you to talk to a trusted adult about how you will cope when the baby is born, perhaps to place for adoption. If u are considering pregnancy, please don't - it will bring you great heartache at such a young age - you need to grow and learn who you are and become independant first.

Answer 11

Many years ago and in some cultures today, girls were getting married and having children very early. If worse comes to worse, you'll have to have a Cesarean birth. That's where the surgeon will cut open your uterus and pull the baby out. Good luck and be more careful from now on.