It's not that I am ugly looking or I can't talk. But why am I still unattached? The girls I met are either always busy with not looking for a bf or either they are so near yet so far (ie: they have a bf or somehow unable to work out). I see so many people happily attached or married and I really want to be like them yet the places I go or I work or will work always seems to be lacking of suitable girls. Why can't fate just be nice for once and let me meet a suitable one?
2006-07-22 14:12:40 · 6 answers · asked by whywhywhywhy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try to find a suitable one on the internet but the internet is full of guys too. Almost a 3:1 ratio. Will my angel please appear. I am tired of waiting.
2006-07-22 14:16:08 · update #1
I am in my mid-20s. No longer in school. Girls or should I say women my age seems to disappear compared when I was younger.
2006-07-22 14:32:43 · update #2
Don't "LOOK" for love... thats usually when it shows up-when you least expect it to. Remember to keep yourself busy with things your interested in, that way when the right one see's you, you'll be doing what's good for you-which is also known to attract women (seeing a guy doing something he's really into). Good luck.
2006-07-22 14:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur circle of frens are veri small.. you should join some forums gathering..some hobbies group to know more ppl.. but ur motive must be correct, that is to know more frens and from there move on...
This type of things cant be rushed.. U wait patiently for the right one to come along is way better than u find hastily find someone and end up not happy together rite?
2006-07-23 00:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by kopisoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You might have plenty of time.
Get interested in things that interest you, or develop new interests and see whom you might through those things. if you like politics, volunteer. If you like lectures, attend the cocktail pary after and ask some gal what SHE though about it, then ask her to explain some more. If you like sports, join a co-ed team.
Go out there, be your best self, and you will cross paths with suitable partners. Strive to be friends first.
2006-07-22 14:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't everything it is cracked up to be. Take your time boy. It'll happen when it's meant to be. Fate is what you make it. Sometimes you have to kick it a good one in order to get it up and motivated. Relax and enjoy life. I bet if you followed those happily married people home, you'd see it isn't perfect. Of course it isn't all bad either.
2006-07-22 14:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, you sound really desperate. even though i'm in the same situation like you, i'm not that desperate. i still havent go to the extent to look for partner online. though i dont rule out this possibility in the future. hahaha....
anyway, i realised that guys in the mid-20s all have this problem. they normally cant find a gf if they are still single. in their younger times, their hp is filled with girls' contact. but as times passes by, their hp now is left only with their 'brothers' contacts.
2006-07-23 04:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to overnightplayer.com and read everything, it will teach you anything you need to know about seduction and attraction with women. It should answer all of your questions haha.
2006-07-22 14:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋