me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 about a month and i told him that he should start wearin polos and he did then i told him that i liked curve colonge and now thats all he wears then i told him that i dont like it wen he cusses so now he does not cuss all my friends say that i have him whipped i never thought of it before but do u think i do?
2006-07-22 14:03:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also if i hang up on him accidently he always calls me bac before i can even dial the #s and the other day he told me that he loves me
2006-07-22 14:05:32 · update #1
i dont tell him wat to do i just tell him my opions
2006-07-22 14:34:11 · update #2
Whipped is the term people use for others when THEY don't know how to behave around women.
2006-07-22 14:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you have talked about things he does for you. What do you do for him? It is interesting you are worried about whether or not you have him whipped instead of wondering how you could possible treat this guy better. From what you said it sounds like he really likes you and is doing everything to please you. The term "whipped" is usually used when someone is being taken advantage of. If you really have true feelings for this guy you would be talking about how GREAT he is to you and how much you appreciate having him in your life not ahhh do I have him whipped or not???? You better be careful, guys like that only allow themselves to be "whipped" (as you put it) for a certain period of time. Watch it your as*s may get dumped! Then I guess he would no longer be whipped!
2006-07-22 21:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using the word "whipped" implies that you are not equal partners; I hope this isn't true for both of your sakes. No one likes to be" whipped" and being the "whipper" is just as bad. Also it sounds like the things he is changing for you are fairly simple. Why not dress and smell the way you like as long as it isn't something he doesn't like. As far as cussing, that's a good thing too. If you told him you liked Marines and he immediately signed up then I'd say that's extreme. It sounds like you have a great guy who is trying to please you. Do the same for him.
2006-07-22 21:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to do what pleases you but if it goes on too long he may begin to resent you thinking that you're intentionally trying to change him. Stop dropping heavy hints and let him be himself, isn't that why you liked him to begin with?
2006-07-22 21:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have him whipped. but its not good also because to him it will seem like your trying to control him, he also needs his space and needs to run free too.you cant keep telling him what to do and expect him to obey you.sooner or later,he will get sick of it.it also depends on the guy,some guys like being told what to do and some don't
2006-07-22 21:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Angel_Anton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a spoiled rotten little girl who does not desreve a decent guy if this is how you are going to view your relationship!!!
2006-07-22 21:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by kim.york 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope sounds like he cares 4 u hold on to him and stop being so mean
2006-07-22 21:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A working relationship is one where both give and take!
2006-07-22 21:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Gladiator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋