I am always putting him down. Because he gets on my nervous and things like that. My mom always says to support him? How?
2006-07-22 14:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When a negative thing to say about him pops into your mind, replace it with a positive statement about him. YOu might need to prepare some in advance, so you'll be ready. You might need to look back at baby pictures or other memories of times he was dear to you to help get through this stage.
Part of the problem between you and your little brother is, and you can't help it, is that he is a rival of yours for your parents' affection and attention. The thing you've learned is that your negative comments about him don't increase your status around the house, they hurt it.
If he builds something, praise it. If he wants to play with you, find a way to do so. I'm sure lots of people put up with you and cut you slack and went out of their way to be patient and supportive of you. If not, all the more reason to shower that on him. You are teaching him about love and family. What are you teaching him?
2006-07-22 14:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your father. He will be able to put things right for you. That is what fathers are meant for. ( I think he is pampered by your mother only.)
2006-07-23 03:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pat wang52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO THAT BY, CHECKING HIM WHEN HE DOES WRONG, LET HIM KNOW, THIS IS HOW YOU DO THIS, THIS IS HOW YOU DO THAT. YOU DONT PUT THINGS IN YOUR MOUTH, DONT TALK TO TO STRANGERS, BUY HIM SOME CANDY, WHEN HE DO RIGHT. IF HE GETS ON YOUR NERVES, LET HIM KNOW, KEEP ON ON IM NOT TAKING YOU OUTSIDE.
2006-07-22 21:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by khris d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋