Should I wait till i am 18 wich would be next year in dec. or just go for it now or is he way out of my reach even though i will be turing 17 this year
2006-07-22 13:59:10 · 16 answers · asked by aval_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not so much that he's 20, but make sure he isn't taking advantage of you. sooner or later he will want sex, so don't let that fool you. be prepared it you intend on seeing him. Be considerate of your parents, don't play them for fools, they deserve respect. if you haven't finished school, do that first, then think of what you want to do with yourself. if he cares about you , he'll want you to succeed in life first. you have to bloom and grow up , expierence life first, you have so much to do. think of what the consequences will be.
2006-07-22 14:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by smart007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hon i say think with your head a bit, i don't know the age of consent over there where you are, but if it is 18yr, you could get him locked up, so think about for a minute. also you only mentioned your feelings is he interested in you the same way as well? what i say is wait, it might be hard and you might see it as you are missing out on a lot in life but you'll see and who knows maybe in a couple years you might wonder what you saw in the guy, i also suggest talking it over with your parent (s), or someone older that you trust like a pastor or teacher or school counselor. anyhow whatever you decide all the best and I'll pray that you make the right choice.
2006-07-22 21:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait. And the reason is? Why would you want a 20 year old who is looking at a 16 year old? You have your whole life ahead of you, why rush it? And by the way, I would really look at the intentions of a 20 year old trying to get with you. ANyine ekse think so?
2006-07-22 21:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mcclete22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age isn't really the big importance in your situation. If you really like him there shouldn't be anything standing in the way of that. But if he is just asking for sex, then there is a big problem and you should just forget him. This guy should want more from you then just sex.... like any good relationship he should want you for you and respect your wishes.
2006-07-22 21:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Izzy <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now the age difference is too much. Yes, wait until you are out of high school and on your way to being able to stand on your own...meaning job and education.
If you lose your youth to him you will be bitter and angry in the future.
If it is meant to be it will happen when it is suppose to happen.
2006-07-22 21:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys on a different planet. Those 4 yrs of life experience have left you in the dust. If he is paying attention to you he expects you to be easy and drop your panties quick. Emotionally, psychologically, and in maturity you guys have very little if anything in common on any level other than surface level.
Leave him alone.
2006-07-22 21:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 16 2 n having sex with a guy who is 20. he loves me i love him n we have been together 4 2 years. what i'm trying 2 say is if u think he is nice decent person go 4 it [ i've known my bf all my life, we grew together]
2006-07-22 21:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by kutie16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could still go out with him but 20 year olds don't do without sex most of the time. he is not way out of reach. me and my hubby are 9 years apart but we got hitched when i was 25...so i was older but men don't do without sex so if you don't want to be having sex you ought to talk to him about it
2006-07-22 21:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by allofthat7464 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 20, i dated a girl that was 16 and we had sex all the time, it was nice, it was so tight and tasty......well its not that far apart i didnt know she was 16 and i really liked her. age doesnt matter as long as its not too creepy like a 30 year old guy with a 16 yr old...ill have sex with you!!!!!!!!!!lol playing...........
2006-07-22 21:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by slipmearoofy69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you're 18, it will be well worth the wait!
2006-07-22 21:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by bsc_student_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋