My boyfriend and I have been together for sometime now. But now that he is gone away at school for the service. I am hearing that he has been doing nothing but cheating on me while he was here. But what is getting me is I have no way of getting a hold of him to talk to him about it. I'm lost and confused on what to do.HELP.
2006-07-22 13:45:29 · 13 answers · asked by angel fairy 2326 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether he's cheating is not the issue. Trust is the issue. If you trust him, stay with him. If you don't trust him, break up with him. You can't have a good relationship without trust. If you even suspect him of cheating, it's not going to work out.
2006-07-22 13:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Brianman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do except try to gather some actual evidence and not just rumors (which could be nothing more than someone trying to make trouble for the two of you since they know he is gone) and if you can't find proof then you just laugh about it when you tell him what all the hometown morons are up to when you do get to talk to him. Is he trustworthy or isn't he? If he is then you need to have some faith, not be stressing him out while he's away.
2006-07-22 13:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confronting him is not going to do anything . All he's going to say is " I don't know what your talking about" or "It's not true" " I'm not cheating on you". I mean really there's not anything you can do except decide if you think he is or not for yourself. As well as you feel you know him do you think, honestly, that he would possible cheat on you? If so then decide for yourself what you want to do.And if you don't think he would then drop it. The truth has a way of coming out all by it's self and sooner or later it will until then don't let it nag at you or every time you turn around your going to suspect him of cheating then your going to get jealous of ever move he makes. So decide for yourself what you think is best.
2006-07-22 13:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard. wait till he gets back to talk to him or find a way to talk to him. letters or anything. if u hear it from many trustworthy sources, i wouldnt doubt it. just prepare urself for hard times when he gets back because that can be an emotional battle. just realize u dont need him and if he cheated on u, he's not the one for u. realize that and move on while he is away. that is the best u can do. and when he gets back u can do what ever is necessary. goodluck and i hope u find out he didnt cheat...because that really does hurt.
best wishes
2006-07-22 13:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no way of getting in touch with him not even e-mail or by sending him a post card? You have to wait until you talk to him to make a decision. In the mean time check your sources make sure they're believable. If you think they're right then just break it off however you feel fit.
2006-07-22 13:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rumors are always based on the truth. Walk away and get tested.
2006-07-22 13:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lovetoloveyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hold of the t.v. show Cheaters they always get to the bottom of things good luck.
2006-07-22 13:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you he was cheating? Who are these sources and are they reliable? Maybe your mind is playing tricks on you?
2006-07-22 13:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him and find someone new!! It'll hurt for a while but you'll get over him and find someone much better!
2006-07-22 13:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by grumpycarebear05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w8 for the next time u talk to him and politely let him know how you feel, and how the situation is bugging u out.
2006-07-22 13:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by happy_funin_joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋