I really like this girl I met a week ago, and we have gone out a few times. First I went to the park with her so we could talk and we did for like 4 hours. Next she invited me over to her house and we watched a movie. The most resent date was to a movie. At the movies I did not make a move because I am really shy, nice and have a hard time seeing if she really likes me as more than a friend or just as friends and I do not want to make a move if she just wants to be friends. We have a lot of things in common. Now I have been trying to go out with her again but she keeps making plains with her other girl friends after she said we were going out. Is this a sign that she just wants to be friends or is this nothing to be worried about? Could not making a move on our last “date” make her think I am not in to her? What should I do?
2006-07-22 13:18:39 · 8 answers · asked by The original John Doe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows you like her, it's like a sixth sense we women have, she is definitely ignoring you on purpose, when girls really like someone, they will do anything to be near them, within reason, back off and see what happens
2006-07-22 13:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this could be combination of a lot of things. To get a real honest answer from someone that really knows is to just ask her. When you see her "face to face" (not iming or emailing) just ask her out on a date. More than likely you can read her expressions and get an answer from her. Good Luck.
2006-07-22 20:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested. If a girl makes other plans over YOU, then she's trying to avoid you. If a girl ever really likes a guy, usualy they put them before their girl friends. Not ALL the time, but quite a bit, especially in the beginning.
2006-07-22 20:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you 2 talked for 4 hours, thats a good sign, and if she invited YOU over then thats a sign i would take as interested, and girls hyave to spend time with other girls just like guys gotta hang with other guys, and if she knows you, then she knows your shy and probably knew you wouldnt make a move. you should try some small things.. like hold her hand just randomly, and judge her reaction, you will know if she is interested...
hope this helps man
2006-07-22 20:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks of you as more than a friend, else she would have invited you to come along with her and her friends. You are going to have to make a move, hold a hand, kiss a cheek, play footsie...something, before she gets tired of waiting and meets someone else.
2006-07-22 20:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not interested she kinda planning over you to avoid you maybe you should just be straight up with her and ask her why she plans over you sojust ask her and maybe she'll talk if she doesn't just wait or leave it alone you dont need to be waiting around for someone who doesn't want you just talk to her she'll probably come around and tell you instead of making you suffer it's easier that way!
2006-07-22 20:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probably thought you didnt like her cause you didnt make a move but evry girl needs some girl time too so dont seem to desprate but next date make a move [;
2006-07-22 20:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Perty N' Purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may of just been thinking the same thing you are
2006-07-22 20:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋