Ummm ty all but it is not easy for me to tell my mother about it?

Question

ummm..my boyfriend is 14 and i talked about the kids with him but i never told him that i am pregnant.He said it's awesome for someone to have a child but what if he just walks away now when he needs me?I do know that is hursh to be mother in age 14 also father.I am scared when i only think how he is gonna react.
I am in 3rd month right now and i don't know if i can still wait.When is my stomack gonna get real big?It already started showing itself a bit.....I'll think about telling my mother about it....ill have to do it one day.

Answer 1

You might want to think about telling your boyfriend right away. You could aslo talk to your mother first and she can help you out. If you are not interested in having the baby, now would be the time to have an abortion, don't let the pregnancy continue because it is not good to have an abortion when the child really begins to develop. Young girls often think that they cannot tell their parents but it won't be as bad as you think. Just give it your best shot. You are really young to have a child, make sure that you really think things through. If your parents don't support you having a baby maybe you should think about why.

Good Luck. Wishing you the best of luck.

Answer 2

That's right, the longer you hide it... the harder it will be. Anyways, you can't hide it forever so you may as well tell them now. I'm sure your mom will help you and if your boyfriend runs out on you and the baby, then you didn't need him anyway! You need to tell your mom soon so she can take you to the doctor and get your check up's started. Don't be scared, everything will be okay. You need to be strong for your baby. You DO want your baby to be healthy don't you? Then you need to get to the doctor right away!!!!! It's very important. There is a life inside of you, and he/she is counting on you to take care of him or her.

P.S. If you're old enough to know about sex, you're old enough to know about condoms. You need to use them, not only to keep from getting pregnant but to keep from getting an STD!!! You gotta be careful girl. After you have your baby, get on birth control AND please...... finish school. That's important too. You need an education so you can get a good job and support your baby.

Answer 3

Girl I think you need to tell your mom right know. You need to go to the doctor soon actually you should of all ready went. I know it's hard to tell your mom but it's got to be done. I'm 27 and found out today that I'm pregnant too. but it was hard and scary but I had to tell my mom. I did it. Just think about how you will feel after you tell. It always fells better after you tell. And about your boyfriend, if he doesn't stay then you still have your family. Especially your mom. A mother's love is always uncondtional. Your boyfriend might hang around a while but then again he partens might make him stay take care of this baby. Remember yall are both 14 and his partens can make him do anything...Please tell your mom so you can go to the doctor do it for the baby. You need to tell her know....

Answer 4

baby you are havin a baby, u can't act like a kid now because you gave up that chance. you r a budding mom so no abortions because u will not be able to live with yourself trust me.. own up act up start thinking about the baby's future eg food clothes etc and there is life after a baby, do not let it hold u back. surround yourself with positive thinkers and think of yourself as a surviver. the sad thing with pregnancy's is that we females always have to receive the negative comments while the males get a tap on the back. pray and trust in GOD

Answer 5

i will say something first that nobody else has said. are you taking prenatal vitamins? it's so important to take them. walmart has One-Source prenatals, you take 2 of them everyday, they're small and like $6 maybe. i feel so bad for you, it must be hard. i was 19 when i got pregnant and it was hard to tell my dad even though i lived with my boyfriend. just remember, telling your parents is the best thing. no matter how mad they are it's ok. everything will change in 6 months when that baby is born and they see his/her face. the sooner you tell them the sooner you can go see a dr, and hear your baby's heartbeat. don't listen to people who are knockin you, kickin you while you're down. what's done is done. they can't judge you. for all anyome knows you had sex 1 or 2 times total. it's no one's place to judge you when you came here for help. if you want to email me and talk you can. [e-mail]

Answer 6

hi, i think you're mother can you help more when you tell her exactly what you are going through right now. She may get upset, but that's normal. You should approach her soon because you need her loving care right now and your baby needs her grandmother's care too. It's a great feeling for a mother to help her child. Remember Mother knows best! :-)

Answer 7

My heart goes out to you I was 16 when I got pregnant by an older guy 8 years ago, he left and I haven't seen him since. It's hard but you will get through it. I thought the hardest thing was going to be telling my parents BUT actually it was the best thing I ever did. They were very helpful. You need to tell all of them as soon as possible because you need to start getting prenatal check-ups ASAP. Trust me...it'll all work out.

Answer 8

You need to tell them both. Maybe try to tell your mom first so she can be your support system. And don't worry, as mad as you think she will be, she would rather know the truth that know that you have been hiding something from her. Just tell them both so you can get it off your mind and enjoy this time in your life. This is supposed to be a happy time right now, not stressful!

Answer 9

you should definately get it out in the open--you are too young to be dealing with this alone--not to mention that your unborn baby feels everything you feel, anxiety, stress etc and it isnt good for them....if your boyfriend abandons you, he is a jerk but know that he can't abandon you for too long, as he also has responsibility and support that he legally has to provide even if he is unwilling to do it emotionally and voluntarily......but the longer you wait the worse it looks for you--your boyfriend might think you are purposefully deceiving him for reasons that arent there, same with your parents-----get it out there so you can get the love and attention you need to be getting so you can have a healthy baby

Answer 10

Have you considered adoption? There are so many couples out there that really want a baby. Open adoption allows you to stay in touch with your baby as well. I have a cousin who is a "tummy mummy" and is so happy with her decision. Talk to someone, find out your options and make the decision that is right for YOU.