i am kinda scared that if we have sex... thats fine with me it just my parents don't even now that i am going... and what is i have sex.... i am olny 13 so who knows what i am going to do????
PS my messanger is up and running i see no problems with it
2006-07-22 12:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by fashion90s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are way too young to be having sex. What if you got pregnant, then what would you do. You need to talk to your parents.
2006-07-22 12:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some would say you are to young to be the OH SO CORRECT PEOPLE, but you know when the time is right. What is really the right age to have sex? Cuz I know alot of people that are 21 years old and they REALLY should not be having the sex they do, they are still to young, (in so many screwed up ways). But if you do have sex, which I hope it's cuz u want to and not cuz u may lose him if u don't, wear protection. Cuz A.I.D.S is real and there is no cure. And look at his penis before hand. There is nothing wrong with it. U don't have to perform oral on him, but just look at it. Any lumps or bumps, look at it. Cause HERPES is something you live with and can harm u and your kids later on the down the line. So do these things, and most of all, talk about it with him, if neither one of u can talk about it without laughing or giggling, than it's not your time. But if you do, look at it, (lift the balls and everything), put on a condom and be safe. But if u can avoid it, plaese do. Cause once u start have sex, ain't no stopping the outcomes.
2006-07-22 12:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT have sex! You are only 13. When I was 13 sex was something I did not want to get involved in. You think at your age you know everything about life but once you get older you will realize you do not. Don't have sex because you are trying to please him, or b/c you are curious, of course everyone will be curious if they are still a virgin. I just lost my virginity 2 months ago and i am 21 years old!! I waited for a long time. It was very hard because it is tempting and you want to try it or want to get it over and done with but trust me, a great guy will wait until you are ready, until you are older ok? Trust me. I was with my b/f for over a year and he waited. That is what you call a good man. This is why I had sex with him and lost my virginity to him. My niece is your age (13) and I tell her the same thing I'm telling you. I inform her about sex and tell her not to have it b/c she will in fact regret it once she gets older. She will realize it's a huge mistake. wait until you are in a serious relationship when you are atleast 18 alright. It is also deegrading at your age to have sex. I am being honest. You are lacking self-respect b/c if you had self esteem you would not have sex at such a young age. He will have sex with a lot more other girls when he is done with you. Boys will be boys that is why you have to wait until you are older to handle a man and not a boy, by that time you will also be a woman. I am glad I waited. I was offered so many times to have sex. As soon as my ex b/f's would mention sex I dumped them because I knew I was too young. I focused on school work! You are too young ok. Do yourself a favor and your parent's a favor as well: Keep your legs closed!!! After he screws you he may tell the whole school and everyone will look at you as the easy girl. A lot of girls have had sex at your age, maybe even your friend's have and told you about it too, that makes you want to do it too but do not do what they do, do as your heart tell you too. You will be glad that you waited and also them guy you will give your virginity to will be happy you waited. He will have so much respect for you for being such a good girl with self respect. He will see that you are not like the others and you are different. Behave yourself and don't make a careless decision that you will end up regretting ok. I would suggest you to not go to his house tonight. He is expecting sex, that is what all boys think about even if he doesn't act like he's thinking about it, s-e-x is on his mind a lot. Do not give in to temptation. Stay home instead so you will not be tempted. BEHAVE!
2006-07-22 12:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 yrs. old and you think your ready for sex?? I think you should think twice about what your going to do. Why do you want to have sex @ such a young age? OK I was in a situation like that but I was 16 and we had already had sex (after a 1yr.) my parents didn't know I was going either but I went anyway and to tell you the truth it really wasn't that bad. But I don't think you should be staying the night @ your boyfriends house. If you do then try not to have sex but if you do that then make sure you protect yourself okay.
2006-07-22 12:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey babes I don't mean to sound like an old mother hubbard...... but.....my best advice to u is to w8. u seem 2 have questions about the nights activities which means that u have some apprehensions which is good because u r thinking.... so why not change the plans and go out link up with friends.... because a decision made out of the moment can have a life time consequence.... You r 2 young to make a mistake that can cause you pain....
2006-07-22 12:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chokolate Chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez i would think twice about having sex that young, i tell you from experience that it isnt even fun when you are that young, unless you want to become pregnant and alone. I was 14 when i first had sex and it has been one of my biggest regrets my whole life. Dont do it, you can have fun without going the whole way, dont let boys use you!! It doesnt make you popular to be having sex at that age, it just makes you look cheap.
2006-07-22 12:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice, stay home, you are way too young for sex. It's so very easy to become pregnant, even on your first time. If you do, your life will be pretty much over, as fat as fun and a good life are concerned.
2006-07-22 12:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really only have sex if you're ready to have a serious discussion with your boyfriend about safe sex and what you'd do if you got pregnant or if he gave you an STD. Be smart, because you only get one opportunity to make smart decisions.
2006-07-22 12:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only 13 stay home. You are too young to have sex and you will regret it later.
2006-07-22 12:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young. And I know that hearing that you will say you are not.
I regret that I had sex at 16. Really, I would wait a few more years at least.
2006-07-22 12:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋