A very sexually attractive 40 yr old lecturer (who I would like a session of passionate sex with) who works in my Department has now left for 3 weeks holiday.
He is at home (with his wife and kids presumably) - should I get a pair of binoculars and watch him from behind a bush outside his house?
2006-07-22 11:54:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has shown me interest. You should see the way he looks at me at work..his ever such soft gaze...
2006-07-22 12:06:50 · update #1
First of all, Stalking will land you in jail. Second, if the man is married with kids leave him alone. You can do better than someone else's seconds.
Find a guy who will want only you. This guy has kids who depend on him. Do you really want to hurt them?
2006-07-22 12:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he was put in your path, then there are others to follow. As a married woman w/kids, if I saw you snooping around my house, you would not have to wonder about stalking again. I think that people need to realize that a happy home should be left at that(HAPPY). Leave the man alone find your own. It is apparent he hasn't given you any indication that he was interested in you in that way. Save yourself and this family some heartache. MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 19:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by lashenica j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, follow him around, and while you're at it, get a pair of binoculars & watch him having sex with his wife, you perverted freak!
Go find someone who's really interested in your romantic overtures and leave the MARRIED ONES ALONE!!!!
2006-07-22 18:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is way to obvious! Now if the house across his house became available that would be better. Then don't be to obvious about it, use mini blinds, and turn them upwards and use the binoculars thru the holes...
2006-07-22 18:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_pixie_dust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Stalking is illegal in most states.
Find someone else. If he is not interested in you, he will most likely never be interested in you.
That's the bad news.
Here's the good news...
You will find someone who is equally interested in you IF you work on developing yourself as a person, so that there are attributes in your personality, activity and history which are interesting.
2006-07-22 18:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Why would you want to do that?!?! The man has a family and why would you want to mess his life up like that? I think the only reason that a person should stalk someone is that if they think their spouse is cheating. other than that NO.
2006-07-22 19:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
creeepy... Don't stalk the guy, instead find someone unattached to have a "session of passionate sex" I am sure you will have more than a few willing partners not currently dedicated to their family.
2006-07-22 18:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. ..and don't forget your cellphone so you can dial for pizza.
I like chilli, so throw a pebble at my windows and I'll come out for a slice... and maybe even a piece of @ss :-)
2006-07-22 19:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Chiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you get out of stalking him, besides jail time? Why not look for a real boyfriend?
2006-07-22 18:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is married and thats that. Get your own man stop worring about him, you'll only cause problems with his wife and children. GET A LIFE
2006-07-22 19:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by kimber69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋