I just recieved word that"yes"I am misscarring. Not quite sure how to deal with this. If you have anything helpful i would greatly appreciate it. thank you.
2006-07-22 11:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
We already have 2 beautiful daughters. This baby was a complete surprise. turning out to be a good one, then i feel like it was given and then ripped out of my hands. I am thankful for the 2 I have, but am so heartbroken of the loss of this one.
2006-07-22 12:07:56 · update #1
Thank you all for your kind words
2006-07-22 12:09:35 · update #2
i deeply feel for you and your family for the loss. the same happened to me 2 years ago, when i lost my baby (iufd or intrauterine fetal demise). don't shut away your feelings of grief. give yourself time to mourn. it may take a while for you to accept and feel better, but don't rush yourself. i know it would be difficult for you today, but i am very sure someday you'll be alright.
i believe everything that happens to us has a reason. be thankful of what you have now and consider this event a gift from above. look, you have your own little angel praying for you upstairs - how's that for a wonderful blessing?
2006-07-22 16:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by patty 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest there isn't much you can do. I have miscarried several times, including my twins at four months. It was very difficult to deal with but I had friends and family help me through it. All you can really do is pray and wait. God will give you a child someday, he just needed this baby for a special purpose. Trust that it will all work out. It took me 5 years and I'm due to deliver anyday. Believe everything will be all right. Now I'm not saying don't grieve. I did for a long time. I blamed god then realized I was wrong. Everything happens for a reason and god needed my babies for something special. In time the pain of losing this child will ease but mine has never gone away. I don't think it ever does. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. God bless you and my family will pray for you to help get you through this loss.
2006-07-22 12:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good or bad way to deal with that type of problem. You just have to deal with it in your own way. One of the things you might go through is thinking was there something i did? And the answer is no, when you realize that is was not your fault that is when you can move on in your life.
Take as long as you need to think and grieve just don;t let that stop you from living life.
Life gives you many hoops and hurdle's to jump through and the more you jump through the better person you become
Very sorry to here about your lose
2006-07-22 12:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by jmatt_inc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. Just be strong and know that everything happens for a reason. Maybe God needed that child up in heaven for something. Loss is always hard but I couldn't imagine losing a child. Hope everything turns out ok for you. Take care of yourself.
2006-07-22 12:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage about 7mos ago and i think the best way to cope with the loss of an unborn child is to do things to get you mind off of what you're going through. As a woman its kinda hard to cope with it, and with me, i was lonely because i didnt feel i had anyone to talk to. It was just me and my boyfriend dealing with it (i'm 20 and my mom is against premarital sex). So, im always available if you wanna talk. I hope all goes well with you.
2006-07-22 11:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, its not an easy thing to deal with.
Everyone deals with grief differently, so I cant tell you what exactly will work for you.
You might find it comforting to know that this wasnt the time your child was meant to be born, and that little baby will wait until the time is right to be born to you.
2006-07-22 11:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by mand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to lose a child.I'm so sorry.Everyone has trouble in their life.I don't know if this will help but maybe it will make you fell better to adopt a child.They don't have to be 4 or 5 years old.You can adopt a baby.Good luck and I'm so sorry.
2006-07-22 12:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by alibrown08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God, He will show you some way how the deal will the pain in your soul, I promise you that. God bless you.
2006-07-22 12:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by me at yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me about 2 years to get over it....it will just pop in your mind every now and then that you could've had another kid but it's not something that will always be with you.
2006-07-22 13:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋