Why does it always seem like when a woman gets a good man she cheats on him? That's why it's hard for women like me to get a good man, because when there a good man and there cheated on then they start treating us GOOD WOMEN like crap. It's the other way around also when a good woman gets a man he cheats on her so she starts treating men like dogs and some of them could be good men. I'm the only one that thinks this?
2006-07-22 11:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your not the only one that thinks like this. When a good man gets cheated on, like myself, we start being a bit more cautious when it comes to relationships. If we even get the slightest hint that something else is going on, we back away real quick to re-evaluate the situation. It's just a defense mechanism. There are still good men out there, just a little harder to find. It seems to me that opposites attract, and the cycle just keeps going. And I don't think that if a good man gets cheated on then he does the same. Some men might do this, but not all of them . Even though I've been cheated on, lost 13 years of marriage because of it, that doesn't mean that I'm going to cheat. I have better values than that. Keep your chin up. You will find a good man out there that wont treat you like a piece of dirt. Have faith and follow your heart. There are still a lot of good men out there!
2006-07-22 11:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you not the one that thinks that way matter of fact i happened to run into guys who one way or another have been hurt by women and when we start dating they start doing thing to me and they wish they would have done it to the ones that hurt them currently i gave up on dating it seems that i have a magnet for men that have been hurt by another woman.
2006-07-22 11:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, as a guy, so I'm biased, but I think that there's good guys out there. You need to keep looking 'til you find one, and don't be cynical and give up...
2006-07-22 11:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually almost every time i go out with someone... they cheat on me!!!!!
its ok you will find the perfect man someday!!!!
2006-07-22 11:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortantly...its the good ones, that always get the mad deal...so it's harder for us to trust when we actually get a good one of our own.
2006-07-22 11:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋