i've got a great boyfriend but he lives ina different town. and i also have like 10 boys chasing me in my own home town. i hardly ever get to see my boyfriend exept for 3-4 x's a year. Should i break up with him for a guy in mytown and my school? i like my boyfriend and hes sweet and sensitive but i want to be able to see him more often! What
Should i Do?!?!?!
2006-07-22
11:43:31
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my boyfriend i have right now is great but i dont get to see him often(he lives a dif. town.)i've got10 guys in my own home chasing me but i only like one. should i break up with me current bf and go out with the one i like? my bf right now loves me and i love him , but i only see him 3-4x's a year for a week at a time. do we need to see eachother more often to have a successful relationship?
2006-07-22
13:22:30 ·
update #1
i met my current bf at camp.
2006-07-22
13:23:12 ·
update #2
we definetly love eachother. there's no ? in that. he only lives 30 min. away
2006-07-22
13:27:16 ·
update #3
You only see your boyfriend 3-4 times a year? How did you even meet? Why are you doing a long distance? If he's THAT worth it..stay with the boyfriend and if you guys are serious and committed enough, you'll move closer together at some point. Otherwise....date locals.
2006-07-22 11:46:44
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are interested in any of the 10 boys chasing you, then you aren't that serious about your boyfriend. Also, most successful relationships require more interaction that 3-4 times a year.
Breaking up with him because you don't see him enough is a legitimate reason. If you choose to do that, I would avoid dating right away. It will appear you broke up with boyfriend A to get with boyfriend B. That's a recipe for disaster.
2006-07-22 18:47:53
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answered by Mark M 2
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It seems you are concerned on two things:
1. About the love you have with your boy friend, which is good
2. About 10 boys chasing you, why all this?
3. ??? Does your bf loves you? Why you didn't want to tell us?
There is a gap between your question and my recommendation that I wanted to tell you. It seems you need further information?
Tomorrow is Sunday and Go to church!! then you will find clear solution within a month or 2 months. take care!
2006-07-22 18:57:28
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answered by Azage G 2
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i think you should tell him you are going to see other guys.. i do not know but he may be doing the same thing.. anway you do not get to see him enough.. just remain friends with him and keep in touch.. you might tell him how you feel about him but i know for experience long distant relationships are not good and not fulfilling at all...
2006-07-22 18:48:20
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answered by sanangel 6
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if you are asking this question, theen just break up, because you definitely have thought about it, besides i take it your young, enjoy life, its a one time thing and just remember that you need to have your fun now or you will regret it. believe me , been there did that.
2006-07-22 18:48:39
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answered by little_red_neck_girl_23 2
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You go with what is best for you, overall.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 18:48:00
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answered by cheekandfolly 3
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tell your bf you want to see him more
2006-07-22 18:49:17
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answered by teaka 2
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well you should you dont see him so yeah
2006-07-22 18:47:24
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answered by Alex 2
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