I want to know whether the relationship is mutual. Please describe the signals that a girl would pass on if they like a guy. I speak to her hours and hours in a day on the phone but I cannot tell what is flirting and what is not.
2006-07-22 11:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by Karan K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are a complex thing and at times it seems that you are some general directing soldiers into battle,against another general doing the same on the other side to you.. Having said so what i can say is this. Relationships can be viewed also as playing chess with a very skilful player. You make a move and then he/she do the same.
You seem that you lack experience with girls and if this is the case you are playing into her hands. The best way to get experience if you are lucky is to have a group of girls that know how to handle men and like to go out and party.
If you are lucky to have such luck you tell them your situation and you go out with them as an observer to see how they handle themselves and i can gurantee you in the end. You will pick up a lot of valuable tips. The books written about relationships are confusing and leave more questions than answers.
There was this girl i know that knew far more than me about relationships. We were good friends and one day she told me that see how she is going to tease some guys. She went home and came back with some tigh bra as she had nice size breast.
She pumped up her nice beast and moved and talked in a certain way and the guys were after her like flies. I took notes and after a long time going out with her and other girls learnt a lot of the tricks women do to men. I have always been lucky to know a lot of girls who are my friends.
I don't have sex with them as i'm going out to learn from them as they are very smart and know all the tricks in the book.
Anothe source of knowledge is people that are married or divorce. If they like you they can be a source of a wealth of knowledge. I know of people that have fought ( World War One and World War Two in relationships) and their positive advice have helped me out a lot.
I can't tell you what signals to watch out for as i'm not there with you to hear her voice as well as what you two talk about on the phone, as there are different facuets to relationships..
What i can make a positive comment on is that don't waste your time spending hours on the phone chatting with this girl. It is best to be there to see her face and look at her body language base on the way she respond to your conversation with her.
What you can do is to be careful and know that ( It is a woman that choose a man ). You can chat her all the time long and she can go and choose some one that treat her like a Dog over you.
You can be talking to her and she can be having sex with some one and they both are making signs on you. Men do the same thing for the sake of argument as well.
Just be careful and listen to your gut feelings. if some thing about this girl don't feel right and you lack experience to deal with it call it a day and move on. For what you are doing is preventing your feelings from getting seriously hurt.
2006-07-22 12:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can tolerate you talking for hours and hours that's signal enough in my book!
2006-07-22 11:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll touch your arm, or your hand, or leg. She'll laugh at your jokes (even if they're not all that funny). She'll lean into you, toss her hair, touch her face.
If she's talking to you for hours on the phone she obviously likes you.
2006-07-22 11:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say something to her that is not even that funny and she giggles then she is into u just stop bein scared and ask her girls like it wen u r open to them
2006-07-22 11:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she calls you, then there may be something going. if you call her up and just jabber for a while thats hardly a relationship.
2006-07-22 11:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says things that are complimenting to you, like i like it when you say that it turns me on. or something like that she is most likely flirting. good luck! :]
2006-07-22 11:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by RockerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with her, see if she flirts back.
2006-07-22 11:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They normally spread their legs lol.
2006-07-22 11:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by CHULA5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she kept saying( thats why i love u) as if she was joking..but saying it over and over..might means she likes u
2006-07-22 11:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by rosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋