she used the excuse "I don’t feel good" or "I’m sick" all the time... also she says she is soar all the time…but we barely EVER have sex… she doesn’t even want to orally satisfy me when she is “soar” then when I ask her why she don’t want to do anything she also says she isn’t in the mood….or she get VERY pissed QUICK!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE….ITS KILLING ME!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 11:12:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ma2 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Lots of things could be going on here. The best one I know, she is probably not as into you as she says she is. Men have a much higher sex drive than women. That's something you'll either have to deal with or find someone who is more into you. #2... she might not like the taste. some women don't..#3... she's not getting anything out of it. are you pleasing her? not just sexually or orally, but mentaly? listen to her thoughts, feelings... women find that more attractive than anything.. you might try role reversal... when she says " I'm sick", ask her if there is anything you can do to help, get her a tylenol, backrub... ANYTHING! #4... as bad as it may sound, she could be seeing someone else. this is a worst case thing, but it's always possible. don't put pressure on her. that's the best advice i can give you. and as a matter of fact, sometimes we just aren't in the mood! sorry to tell you that, but it's true. make sure she is getting everything she needs emotionally and physically. i wish you luck hun!
2006-07-22 11:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let gher go. She may be sore due to other issues: STD, pregnancy, other boyfriend/s, (or she hates you...but can't say it) etc...Have you ever asked her why she is sore? What makes her sore, how you can do things without making her sore?
If you actually love her, accompany her to the docotor's office, and have her checked out!!!!!
If that fails:
Find a woman who enjoys sex like you. As often as you.
2006-07-22 18:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by schnikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a lousy lover. Don't just ram her, you have to spend time at foreplay and get her in the mood. Women will be sore if they aren't lubricated, and lubrication takes places as you build up her arousal during foreplay.
2006-07-22 18:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through similar experience. If she feels attractive she'll be more in the mood. Or she might just be bored(in my case). Be open about how you feel but don't say YOU this and YOU that. That WILL piss her off. Buy her somethin sexy and/or kinky it helped me.
2006-07-22 18:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by James H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you use forplay or give her oral sex ? If you just give her a kiss and climb on then I cannot blame her..You should use your tongue and slide it along her clit I promise you she will be a most willing partner
2006-07-22 18:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by trina k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that high-maintenance tart and get a real woman who knows how to take care of her man.
2006-07-22 18:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by The Man In The Box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her good bye. If she doesn't take care of her man, some woman will.
2006-07-22 18:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't enjoy sex. If you do, get a new girlfriend
2006-07-22 18:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha that's a women for you, either deal with it or find a more horny girl
2006-07-22 18:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably worn out from shagging all your mates.
2006-07-22 18:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋