I have a problem. I had an incident with my mother and I left my home town to come visit my grandmother in California. I am going back to my home town next week, but I have a situation where when I get back I want to go stay with my boyfriend and I'm pregnant. I don't want to go back to my moms because I just don't feel comfortable going back, or feel like beign fake towards her. My grandmother is an evangelist and she wants me to go back to my moms just until I have my baby and she doesn't want me to stay with my boyfriend, but I want to. I know I should let other people run my life or relationship but she will be upset if I go stay with my boyfriend, but if I continue to let people run my life and relationship than it want last because I worry what other people say and I do what other people suggest I should do. What should I do? Can someone with experience help me out on this one. What would you do?
2006-07-22 11:06:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sugar...you need to live YOUR life!
If you let people micro-manage your life, they will do it and it will drive you crazy.
I have a controlling mother and when I got tired of her sh**, we nearly stopped talking.
BUT...she doesn't tarry in MY eyesight with that sh** anymore and MY life is better because of it.
I don't let anyone tell me anything.
I no longer allow myself to be pushed and coerced into doing anything I don't want to do...AND...and this has been a most freeing experience!
LIVE YOUR LIFE!
Make mistakes...
Like all of us do...but...
LIVE YOUR LIFE...
Like YOU want to!
2006-07-22 11:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the answer to this question, you might be in bigger trouble than you know. Does it really matter where you are living?
The truth of the matter is that you should be preparing to become a mother. It also means you should be taking the necessary steps to ensure your baby has a safe, clean enivornment to grow up in.
Your decisions are no longer going to be made in terms of whats better for you. Its what will be better for your baby. A roof over your head is a roof over your head. What are you doing to make sure that you have a job & money so you can provide for your kid.
Does your boyfriend have his own place? OR will you be moving into a house full of his family? If its a choice between living with a bunch of people or with one, that might help you decide.
2006-07-22 18:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mark M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Is there anyone else, like a friend, you could live with for a bit while you work on getting your own place?
2006-07-22 18:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋