my gf goes through my phone everynight i have nothing to hide i just want to know why women do it, I DONT SNOOP THROUGH HER THINGS
2006-07-22 10:35:53 · 48 answers · asked by knowledge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bc u idiots hide things. and we have to make sure that we are in something that is TRUE, not deception. if we are getting lied to and/or cheated on, we want to know, so we can leave instead of staying in a relationship w someone for no reason. things like that.
2006-07-22 10:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say she is either insecure or has low self-esteem unless of coures u have done something during the relationship or revealed something about your past that would lead her to not trust or believe u. it could also be due to her past and how she has been treated by men before u. I have only snooped through a beau's things if I had reason to not fully believe or trust him b/c of what I mentioned above regarding you. Not all woman due this and (at least for me) not to every man they have a relationship w/
2006-07-22 10:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, Dude, I'm a married woman and I have NEVER snooped in my husbands personal things; not in his wallet, his vehicle, his phone, his chest of drawers. I believe everyone deserves their own space and privacy. I certainly enjoy mine. You need to have a serious talk with your girlfriend and tell her she is disrespecting you and giving you signals that she doesn't trust you (does she have a reason for that?). Tell her you won't be subjected to a body search/snoop-nosey girlfriend who violated your personal things and that she has no boundaries. If you don't tell her this, she will not respect you at all (obviously she doesn't)......by the way....no all women do that. She's a bad example. You go, Dude!
2006-07-22 10:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls get insecure, they think you will go with some other chick because they are not good enough or aren't giving you what you want while some other slut would. Just tell her the truth. She has checked and you have never given her a reason not to trust you and tha you love her. It would be nice if she could trust you. Have you given her a reason not to trust you? Well then tell her how you feel nicely.
2006-07-22 10:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are curious by nature, and it was once top news that men are the cheaters in life, though now not necessarily so. Tell her that it bothers you. If she thinks you are trying to hide something tell her to ask. But can you honestly say if you thought she was cheating, YOU wouldn't snoop!?!?
2006-07-22 10:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just doesn't trust your. She could of had a bad previous relationship. I don't do that to my husband or actually any guy I have ever been with. She might have a low self esteem. Because I know I don't, I don't care if a guy wants to leave oh but wait. I am the one always dumping the guy. Okay its her self esteem. Just tell her to calm down that you do love her and if someday you decide you want another relationship you will just tell her and not hide it. But you better tell her don't be a wimp and not tell her.
2006-07-22 10:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is doing it? Makes no sense to me, if you were hiding something all you would have to do is delete it from the phone. Talk to her. Not all women do this, by the way. Maybe she's had a past experience that stops her from trusting you fully.
2006-07-22 10:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women snoop because they don't trust their man. I've been there and done that. I didn't do it with all of the guys I've dated....just one....and I ended up finding proof that there was good cause for snooping.
2006-07-22 10:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean they are insecure about something, most of the time themselves and they snoop to make sure that their is doing right in the relationship because of their low self-esteem. Some do it to feel like they are in control.
2006-07-22 10:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have anything to hide, but she does. Its a known fact that those who start suspecting are guilty of something. Give her a taste of her own medicine. start snooping through her stuff here and there.
2006-07-22 10:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity and trust issues or what would be worse is she is a cheater and like most people "projects" In other words she is a cheater and assumes you are too. Sorry doesn't look good so perhaps a non-threatening casual discussion should be brought up. Bestof Luck
2006-07-22 10:43:49 · answer #11 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋