2006-07-22 10:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by acceber718 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We may wish that our brothers and sisters were different. But wishing they were different doesn't change them.
There is a good in every person even if it's a sibling and if you focus on your siblings " good" assets, you will find in time that your relationship will greatly improve. It's important to accept your siblings for what they are rather than what they are not and I'm sure your feelings will lighten up in regards to what they throw at you. You may wish and hope that your siblings were different but when you learn to accept them for what they really are " your siblings", life will be much more happier for yourself and for them.
Usually siblings are experts at finding fault with you, criticizing you, being downright hurtful, but if we look past that and try to look for the good in them,( turn it around), sooner or later they will change and be more " nicer" to you. Another thing don't expect a change overnight, it will take an example from you to initiate any kind of behavioural change. Good luck.
2006-07-22 11:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them first ...then don't talk to them or deal with them or buy them sweets for 2 days and answer my last question this will make you younger siblings stop
2006-07-22 17:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way I am dealing with my younger piece of crap sibling. I have refused to ever speak to her again. Never, ever again.
I have moved out. I have told her I will never speak to her again, and yes Thanksgiving and Christmas will be awkward, but I don't care. She brought this onto herself.
2006-07-22 17:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by bittersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting them back or retaliating against them is pointless and usually just worsens the situation. If they are younger than you.... you are their superior... and realize as their superior you are smarter than them. One step in "showing" you are smarter is by showing self control.... when you show them that you are not going to hit back they will take notice. If you act as if you like or tolerate what they are doing... chances are that they will get bored and stop doing it. Also... the fact that they are harrassing you means that they want your attention... give them positive attention (hugging, tickling, playing) they will eventually learn that hurting you is pointless.
2006-07-22 17:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by BadAssBilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep saying.. stuff like "hey, if you keep that up. i will really hit you" and make the backhanding motion..if they keep goin at it just slap em on the back.. not too hard though..
2006-07-22 17:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie em to a chair. use as much duct tape as u need to keep them from goin anywhere. its not a painful punishment/abuse is it?
2006-07-22 17:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Gdawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything! They should eventually stop. If they dont stop, tell a parent.
2006-07-22 17:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by zbbasktbal82092 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hurt them back , take something from them they love
2006-07-22 17:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit them back..or tell on them lol
2006-07-22 17:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by r.d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple but can be hard, ignore it.
2006-07-22 17:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by jared l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋