i have just come across this girl that i havent seen in a while that i grew up with... when i ran into her, i had a feeling that this is the girl i want 2 marry and spend the rest of my life.. there was a reason she came back into my life.. like i have hope.. so we went out together numerous times... finally worked up the courage to ask her out... she said she'd think about it cuz she thinks of me as "family".... and then havent heard from her in the last 3 weeks... should i just give up on this girl????
2006-07-22 10:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have called and left messages for her... but in a sporadic way.. in other words.. i spread out the times i call her.. and the times i leave a message so as not to make her feel like im stalking her... im just waiting for a sign or something.... urgh this is racking my mind.. whats sad is.. i even had a dream we got married... lol...
2006-07-22 10:30:44 · update #1
Don't stalk her . . . but pursue her if you want. Understand that she may decline. It's nice she thinks of you as family. Maybe when she gets kicked to the curb by idiots and jerks, that she doesn't see as family, and if you're there for her it might make a light bulb go off in her head. Remember: Slow but steady wins the race!
2006-07-22 10:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by i_troll_therefore_i_am 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she said "she would think about it" is because she likes youbut maybe she loves u as a friend an don't want to mess up the friendship. So she really has to think about it. Conclusion I say a frienship is better.
2006-07-22 10:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Eduardo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up on what you want, you need to let her no how you feel and lay it all on the line...
2006-07-22 10:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by todd g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't but that's up to you.
2006-07-22 10:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋