play hard to get i mean at the age of 19-20...I mean if they do then why??
i have this guy who used to say anything so he can start up a conversation and stare at me all the time but whenever he knew i liked him..he stoped calling and stuff and whenever i call he's like heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy h r u?? miss u!! and stuff u know..why is he doing this??
2006-07-22 09:48:56 · 23 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They shouldnt because we are not hard to get.....you just have to ask!! LOL
2006-07-22 09:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can. He's not an obnoxious teen anymore who can't control his hormones. Payback time to all of the girls who played hard to get in his younger years.
2006-07-22 16:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he likes flirting with you but that he's just not that into you in a girlfriend/boyfriend kind of way. Boys are usually pretty straight forward if they really like you. Find somebody better, who will like you forwho you are, the way you are and not mess with your head.
2006-07-22 16:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they play hard to get, they're testing you to see how desperate you are. If he' doing that, he's treating you like a toy and not really interested in you. Don't fall for it
2006-07-22 16:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that to get backup gals in case their current gf dumps them.The hard to get's are mostly not worth it at that age as they play with emotions.
2006-07-22 16:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes dat attention ur giving him. Don't sweat his a** nomore and I betchu he'll be back. But even though he comes back looking for you, don't cave in girl, cuz as soon as you give him dat attention again he's just gonna dis you.
2006-07-22 16:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. He just likes the attention he is getting from you.
2006-07-22 16:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too young for him, thats what it sounds like to me, and I am a 20 year old guy!
2006-07-22 16:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by gaybobbarker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just want to make someone like them and then dog out. its a game we all play
2006-07-22 16:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem once .. i even fell in love with that guy diluting myself that he feels the same.. after a year of not understanding what he wants , i discovered that he used to date someone else and he didn't care about me.. when a guy wants you ... you'll have no doubt about it
2006-07-22 17:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by rahaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mm...it seems to me that your guy is playing hard to get too...but you know what...when it gets too much...it's time to play the same game to them!
2006-07-22 16:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋