Whenever I've had a girlfriend, they always been nasty to me, or gone behind me back, or do bad things. Why me? I've never done anything to hurt them, upset them, nothing! They always loved me for who I was, but then that would always change and they'd dump me for stupid reasons. I just want my dream gf so badly but feel she aint gonna come :(
2006-07-22 09:46:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone for your answers - great to see theirs no losers with bloody stupid answers :)
thanks
2006-07-22 09:57:30 · update #1
hunny you may need to hold your feelings in for a while when you get a gf and see what happens. by the sounds of it you just pick the wrong girls. at the begging of any realtionship tell them exactly what you want. be the boss but let them tell you what they want aswell. plus you must have a lot of gf's. just take it easy and enjoy life. the right one will bump into you one day, belive me it will happen i have found my perfect partner. i love him so much so if it can happen to a loser like me it can happen to anyone. hope you find that dream girl one day. good luck and take care. x
2006-07-22 10:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by luckylu2k3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants the dream... but it takes a few nightmares before you have your perfect dream. It is just as well really, because you will realise how lucky you are when your Miss Right does turn up.
Don't worry, it will happen. In the meantime just enjoy your life and don't think of it as the only important thing in the world.
Real love often finds people who are not actually looking for it...
2006-07-22 09:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by dashabout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing is girls like that have probably been treeted badly themselves so when they get a decent guy like you they see it as their ppurtunity to fight bak!! it is jst tuf luk o the lad at the recieving end!! that is not to say you shud take it!! at the end of the day you need 2 stand up for yourself and get 2 no a girl b4 u strt chekin em coz if u dnt u could fnd yourself in this same situation time and time again!! follow your heart that will take you to th best places!! she could be right under your very nose but you just havent opened your eyes to see it yet!!
2006-07-22 09:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lipzyy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwww!u speak choooooooo chweet! i read ur profile.you've written 'dont like me-do i care?' now it seems that u do really care!c'mon man i might not be ur age but yet i know how bad a person feels when cant find his dream girl! there is a dream girl for every1.& sooner/later if u wait she will come to u before u even think of putting some effort in winning her!
so good luck!
luv
kitty
2006-07-29 07:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by kitty pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not a lot of comfort but as we all age a little, guys like you become really really popular. Don't put up with someone who doesn't treat you right. You will find that if you are not afraid to dump them then they will treat you better. She will come.
2006-07-22 09:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Laura B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're getting dumped for 'stupid reasons'? When you're the common factor, it's time to look within yourself for understanding of others. Forget about the 'dream girlfriend', instead look for real girlfriend.
2006-07-22 09:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you keep picking the same types of women to be with, your dream girl will never come. You need to figure out what's wrong with YOU. You know what they say: hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me. If you keep getting new girlfriends, and they keep doing roughly the same things to you...the problem is no longer with them they are with you. You need to find out what it is that keeps attracting you to these types of women. You need to understand that you deserve better and that your dream girl would never do this stuff to you. So figure out what you need to do in your life and also figure out what constitutes your dream girl and then go find her. Good luck!
2006-07-22 09:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to kiss alot of losers before you find the sweet princess. I hope you aren't choosing girls by their looks because some girls like that are nasty. Find a nice girl at church or in some youth activity. Take your time to get to know her. Most girls are very nice.
2006-07-22 09:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they all doin stuff to ya . u must be doing something wrong. so just do the opposite. but now be careful when u do cuz all broads aint the same.. there might be one good one out of 1,000. u just gotta see when they start trippin on u. then u flip the script on em and do the same to them or leave em b4 they leave u. i broad hate gettin dumped.
2006-07-22 09:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by jbanks332002x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think that you are becoming boring and want to make the relationship more fun (for them of course) but they cannot see that it ishurting you until you say something so they dump you. It isn't worth the pain so i would becareful on what gf u pick.
2006-07-23 03:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by diamondeyesx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋