Me and my girlfirend just broke up. She always is going back and fourth on "breaks" and dates other guys while we are on breaks and always comes crying back saying im what she really wants. Im sick of it and am not going to put up with it anymore. She also is very controlling and tells me what i can and cannot do. but my question is will she treat every guy she dates like this or just me? She was really cool and nice for the first two years and then got mean. Is this just her trueself coming out?
2006-07-22 09:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that is her personality, or it could be that she acts that way just towards you.
In any case, it is best that you do not stay with her and preserve your own sanity. Let her work out her own issues and you move on with your life and find a girl that will appreciate you.
2006-07-22 09:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she will until she meets a guy that won't put up with her crap or let her walk on them, of course, when that happens she'll probably leave him. Anyway you are far better off without this girl, count your blessings that you didn't marry her when you still thought she was nice. That's why people say you should know someone a few years before marrying them. Congratulations on finally losing this brat and don't worry you'll find better, it would be hard not to!
2006-07-22 16:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, ever wonder where your dignity went? You keep taking her back because you love her but she does not feel the same way about you. Sweet talk is cheap and some are very good at it. trust me, do your self a favor and find someone the opposite of her. Different hair style and everything. You will be glad you did because we all have a bad habit of trying to relive the past when it comes to love.
2006-07-22 16:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. What do you care how she treats other guys she dates? What is important is how she treats you. She sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. She wants to be able to roam the field but then when she feels needy, she can go back to you, Mr. Safe, Familiar, Dependable. Dump her as I said before. She is selfish and not taking your feelings into consideration.
2006-07-22 16:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your own question. You said you're sick of it so get away from that chick before you find yourself setting in the free clinic waiting on blood test results that you would rather no have to worry about.
2006-07-22 16:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by tripping_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude . leave that bipolar broad alone. if you keep lettin her play u like a violin then so be it , dont be here crying the blues to us cuz she treating u like a punk. and if there is some other guy she do it to. then let him deal wit it. sooner or later some guy gonna do the same to her and u can sit back and enjoy seeing the repercussions of her actions to you.
2006-07-22 16:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by jbanks332002x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had the same thing happening... i notice though that part of the reason she was that way with you because of just how you are as a person... and she tried to take advantage of you... i can't say that she may be like that with other guys, cuz they may cut her down really fast if she were to try and pull something with them... but im glad you let her go... to say it quite mildly... its time for you to pick up the pieces and find someone who truly cares about you.... good luck...
2006-07-22 16:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to judge her but she sounds confused, she doesnt know what she wants in a relationship yet, so if she doesnt know that its been two years, picture 3 more years from now. WHERE do you want to be? Still Stressing over her i dont think you want that.
2006-07-22 16:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can only do it if you let her, so if others won't put up with it, then you will be the only one. Get a backbone and stand up for yourself. Don't let her treat you that way. It's your choice.
2006-07-22 16:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends because every guy won't act like u
2006-07-22 16:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋