About 3 h ago i come online on Yahoo mess and see the girl i love with a status that said like this(translated):"Really upset...available for only a few...they know who they are". I lept and tried to talk her down but it didn't work...then after 15 minutes or so she switches her status to one that scared me(no suicidal stuff but still..) and then i started crying cause i couldn't help her calm down.Now i want to ask is this normal or... ?
2006-07-22 09:32:52 · 17 answers · asked by Lone Silver Wolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow!!! Ok well lots of people get down about things, especially in stressful situations. Is this your gf? Suicidal thoughts can hurt everyone that knows the person, not just them, but they don't think of it like that. Just give her a shoulder to cry on. Let her know you care and that you are 100% there for her.... Good luck
2006-07-22 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok something happened and her status message was a cry for attention.
you can only help those who want it. so sit back and wait for her to calm down then try talking to her. i would say the girl is a major drama queen and needs to grow up, but in the mean time if she loves you she will let you know what is wrong when she is ready. Don't sweat it if she was suicidal she wouldn't have been on at all.
2006-07-22 16:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one things for sure, chicks are hormonal to the nth degree. She maybe talking smack but who's to know for sure. First of all stop talking to "the girl I love" on the goofy-*** Internet. Meet her and talk face to face. I knew this girl one time that seemingly with the flip of a switch she would go from Betty-frigin'-Crocker to Charles Manson's publicist. Of course I found out she was bi-polar especially when her "friend " came to visit each month. Talk openly with your girlfriend and see if she opens up with some deeply ingrained problem that's causing her to get all freaky.
2006-07-22 16:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by tripping_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you near where she lives, if so, go there right away, trying to call her while you are in route. If you do not live near her, try to call her family or a friend that can rush to where is located to make sure she is okay and to prevent her from harming herself.
If you think that she is trying to seriously harm herself and no one can get to her quickly, please do not hesitate to call the police to reach her.
However, you need to contact her and to ensure that she seeks professional assistance to help her through her problems.
2006-07-22 16:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you cheated on her?!
Seriously, she's trying to send you a not-so-subtle message that she's VERY upset with you.
YOU started crying? You feeling guilty about something - ? Sheesh, man, get it together. Good luck.
2006-07-22 16:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably going through some "girl" stuff she'll most likly will settle down in a week.
2006-07-22 16:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is really reaching out for help..call her
2006-07-22 16:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on normal. BUt it shows you really care for her. All you can do is try to be there for her.
2006-07-22 16:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did her status say?
2006-07-22 17:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by ♣♣Brick♠♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her
2006-07-22 16:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋