I know this guy who has liked me for a long time but only recently made a move on me. We started fooling around recently. Both of us have really busy schedules, so we don't do any of the "dating" things. Now, I'm beginning to think this is turning into a booty call situation and I don't want to do that. I really like this guy too. What should I do?
2006-07-22 08:09:54 · 5 answers · asked by peta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to put the genie back in the bottle. Thats a tough trick to manage. He's already getting the goodies and now you have to take them away from him. If you want to turn it into a dating thing, you have to tell him. Be honest, be kind and be firm in what you want. You'll know whether you're only a booty call to him by how he reacts; does he get mad and mean? does he stop calling? does he smile and say something like "OK, lets slow down and do some dating stuff". A busy schedule can easily be made less busy for that special someone, giving stuff up doesn't seem like a sacrifice when its for love. And thats what you want isn't it? Love with a capital 'L'? Don't settle for less. Ever. Life is too short. And keep it in your pants until you know what his intentions are. Good luck.
2006-07-22 08:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Clay K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. let him know what you think and that you dont want to be another number in the little bla.ck book all you can do is be honest and straightforward and hope for the best
2006-07-22 08:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up the tang to him. If he's interested in more, he'll let you know... if he's not, it's better to drop him before you get hurt.
2006-07-22 08:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just take da next step
2006-07-22 08:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by babygirlcoco13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him where it's going, and where he would like it to go. Take it from their.
2006-07-22 08:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋