This just happened to a, um, friend of mine, and she wasn't too pleased.
2006-07-22 07:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by Juan Valdez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
clarification: this happened to my "friend," who is a guy, and HIS girlfriend found the porn.
2006-07-22 07:59:15 · update #1
Honestly, Kiki is right... straight guys will watch porn.
Personally, I would hope that my boyfriend wouldn't be hiding the porn. I have a... um... friend who has her own porn collection and is proud of it and proud to share it with her boyfriend. Being part of the decision of what to choose helps a woman to come to terms with the fact that there's nothing wrong with porn... in fact, a lot of women find it very stimulating. If anything else, a porn video is good for a laugh. Come on now... how realistic are these scenarios?
Long story short: if I found porn in the closet, I would have to ask why he was hiding it. However, my boyfriend wouldn't hide it from me because he knows I'm cool with it. Why? Because I know that porn is just porn. It's a fantasy. *It's not real!!* And we'd be kidding ourselves if we honestly thought that looking at / thinking about our partner is the only thing that turns us on. Everyone should be able to appreciate nudity and watching other people get it on. You might learn something!
(It wasn't midget porn or S&M movies, was it? Now that's a different story.)
2006-07-22 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Robyn F. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At least he has the decency to keep it hidden in his closet, and not ask you to watch it with him, or watch it when you are present. Just let him keep his little secret, but if you had children, you wouldn't want them finding that crap.
2006-07-22 14:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how much it is for me, if it's one or two Playboys and a Jenna Jameson movie or two, then I'd be able to laugh it off and ignore it, but if it's boxes and boxes, i wouldn't go right out and say "What the hell you perv?!!" But i'd hint to him how gross it was.
2006-07-22 15:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal depending on the porn... G@y porn=break-up...
If its normal, then tok to him... Things will work out...
All the best
2006-07-22 14:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by KenGOh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend she didn't see it.
straight normal guys will watch porn. fact of life.
so look on the bright side. he's straight. :P
2006-07-22 14:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a hobby, a fantasy of someone he can't have....and admit, we all fantasises bout plp we'll never have.......its normal, and keeps things spiced up! Don't worry, they don't jump out of the pages....LOL!!!!!
2006-07-22 14:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by dazed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch it with him. A male is a male and you can't change a basic instinct.
2006-07-22 14:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by teresa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Juan, I didn't know you had a boyfriend. Do you live in Massachusetts?
2006-07-22 14:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys always use the friend deal when it happened to him.
2006-07-22 15:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Butterflykisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id take it out and say lets watch together
2006-07-22 14:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋