what's wrong with me...? I have been on 3 dates in the last two weeks... none of them called me back.?

Question

here is my myspace page...

http://www.myspace.com/krisidious

can I get the opinions of all of you on what may be wrong with me..? what am I doing wrong?

oh yeah I did call or e-mail them after the date...

it never ceases to amaze me how sweet everyone is here, I expected a lot of rude stuff... but I always get honest, helpful comments and answers... you people are renewing my faith in mankind everyday...

Answer 1

Well i looked at your myspace, and from what i could see from that i couldnt find anything wrong with u but then again im not the one that actually went on a date with u..

here are a few reasons why a woman may not of been attracted to u after going out with u see if possibly any of these apply to u ..

If you were extremely arragant and only talked about u..
If u flirted openly with other women while on your date or even "LOOKED" at them
You didnt seem like u were that interested in them..
You actted like a child
You didnt take a shower and u smelled bad lol..
If you were late, rude, or had a lack of manners ..

Answer 2

I don't see anything wrong with you at all, you just need more confidence in yourself. You assume the problem is with you, and it could be so many other things. Maybe those girls just aren't interested in a relationship with anyone, they just want to date a lot of men and not settle down. Don't assume that because they didn't call you back that the problem is with you. Maybe you just need to raise your standards a little more with the girls you've been dating, try for some that are worth your time. :-) If you are looking for a relationship, try dating girls that are looking for a relationship as well. The right girl will come along, just have a little patience. It usually happens when you are not looking. Also if you are dating girls that you meet on MySpace, that could be the problem. Try an online dating service like Match.com. I've heard a lot of great success stories from there including my own success story. Most importantly believe in yourself! Good luck.

Answer 3

I am probably the only woman that will admit that we are retarded. For some reason women get affraid of nice guys. A guy has always got to have a tough side. I dunno why. I was this way for years. Women don't look for the nice guys until they are completely exhausted by jerks. Sure we say we hate them but look at how many women constantly complain about the jerks they date and then go date another. There is nothing wrong with you it's just us stupid women. We are all Bit ches. We are this way forever unfortunatly. However the Bit ch in all of us calms down at about 30-35. Some between 25-30. There are millions of fish in the sea. The great one will find you when you least expect it.
Take care

Answer 4

So I see your problem but like some people said maybe you can try calling the girls. Or I will suggest you go out on more dates and now you have experience and you can probably see what your doing wrong and this time maybe something good will happen.

Answer 5

Well...it's kinda hard to answer this since we have not actually observed these dates. Looking at your myspace page is not going to give a person much to go on. What are you doing on these dates? Do you have female friends of whom you can ask this question?

Answer 6

Have you called them? Women tend to want to be called by the man after a date. And, a myspace page isn't going to tell us who you really are, your personality, etc.

Answer 7

Sorry; just had to chime in that I find it endlessly ridiculous that all the women have said, "I find nothing wrong with you at all," when apparently their main evidence is a photo of your face.

Honestly, you're probably very kind and there's nothing terrible about you.

But to answer the women, and their judge-character-by-looks penchant: Exhibit A, Ted Bundy's handsomeness.

Answer 8

Well, to be honest, you're a drinker, a smoker, and a little too gung-ho on military. Maybe you're acting desperate on these dates, or maybe since you say you've been on three in the last couple weeks, you're seen as a "serial dater" and not one who's in it for finding "the one" to settle down.

Answer 9

Nothing is wrong with you, just not the right girls. I went on 16 different yahoo personals date before I met my BF, either I didn't like them or they didnt like me....I'm picky. Hang in there, the one will come along soon.

Answer 10

When you go on a date, you NEVER GIVE your real NAME and your real phone number. After after does 3 dates you try to put them all 3 in the same bed at the same night and ENJOY ! ! ! !