this is my first bf and i know i am in love although it seems weird since i am still young and only in high school and on top of that he is my first bf.
2006-07-22 07:27:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can fall in love with your first boyfriend and it can lead to some thing special down the road. Just take things one day at a time and don't place this guy on a pedestal as people and situations change in time.
You mention of you being young and i hope that your grades are ok and don't drop over this guy. Love is a wonderful feeling and as much as it is wonderful the downside of when it turn sour is not some thing easy to get over.
Please be careful and don't fall head over heels over this guy and take things one day at a time. Listen to your gut feelings and read articles in books and on the Internet about relationships so as to arm your self with information.
I know the pain of love as i have been there and i hope that you take things one day at a time and always and i can't stress this enough to be careful as people change for better or worse.
2006-07-22 07:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love your first b/f but keep in mind that there are lots of ppl out there still.I hope that he is the one for you. But things happen along the way and its only high school. The statistics are horrific on relationships or marriges that make it. Hope your on the positive end of that. Never the less I think its healthy to love more than one male person in your life I love my first b/f still to this day but theres a HUGE differance to love someone and being in love. Hope this helps!
2006-07-22 07:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by JaidenLucas Kody H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very possible. Most people think that you can't fall in love with your first because later on you might want to see what else is out there, but that doesn't mean you won't be with your first bf. You just have to figure it out on your own.
2006-07-22 07:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. More than likely though, its infatuation...or something else less serious. You see, you don't really know what love is. I don't mean the definition...I mean you don't have any real experiences to compare with. Real love is a very complex emotion. It make take you a few relationships before you discover the "real" thing.
Often love is more painful than not.
Relax...don't be in such a hurry to be in a situation you are hardly equipped to handle.
My mother used to tell me all the time.."Be careful what you wish for...you may get it".
2006-07-22 07:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you could be in love with your first boyfriend. However, over time you will learn that love is so much more than what you believe it is now. I thought I loved my first boyfriend. But after I dated my second boyfriend (lasted three years) my definition of love was completely different, more to it than the first. As you grow and learn more about yourself as an individual, your love will grow too.
2006-07-22 07:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you will find love with your first bf and will it last only time can tell. But I can tell you, I fell in love with my first bf had two children and moved on to a better life style :)
2006-07-22 07:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is easy to fall in love with your first boyfriend and u really cant help who u fall in love with, i know a woman who had her first boyfriend at 23 and ened up marrying him. but some useful advice, dont fall to fast or hard for this guy or for any guy u go out with in the future, its better to be cautious at first than fall for a guy quickly. while youre at it, have fun!!! dont go into a serious relationship right away, have fun, enjoy each others company, then farther down the road think of a serious relationship.
2006-07-22 07:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guidelines for your relationship need to be set. If you are in love with him and in high school then I urge you to proceed with caution.
You are in a controlled environment that has not real Bering on what the real world is like. So, having said that, you need to make sure that you are happy with yourself first and then decide what your boyfriend does to meet those needs. Likewise, you so consider the same for your boyfriend.
Be smart with your heart not careless with your feelings.
2006-07-22 07:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it possiable but some people call it lust you will always have strong feelings for him and he will always have a special place in your heart just cause he was your first even 20-50 years from now you could be happily married with kids and you'll still think of him once in a while and if its true love for both of you you'll end up together later on in life.
2006-07-22 07:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by Yaz_Daz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely have other loves, rarely does your first bf end up as your only.
2006-07-22 07:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋